tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10790108.post4499433784828353774..comments2023-11-02T20:22:44.860+08:00Comments on 生活点滴 Snippets of Life: 举棋不定shiaulinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17684184440406178117noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10790108.post-14034651023909234062006-11-09T15:13:00.000+08:002006-11-09T15:13:00.000+08:001+2mom,
if my next one still boy leh? and worst if...1+2mom,<br />if my next one still boy leh? and worst if he same like his koko always wants us to carry leh??? aiyoh... how ar?shiaulinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17684184440406178117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10790108.post-84253416279458332922006-11-08T18:12:00.000+08:002006-11-08T18:12:00.000+08:00My son also want us carry till he about 3 years ol...My son also want us carry till he about 3 years old ler, but my gals wont wor. They can walk through the whole shopping about 3 hours also wont ask us to carry them. Time goes by, they will change one lar..now my son he wrlk by himslef cause he saw his sisters all walk without carry. You worry too much..haha.1+2momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13999760967703278267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10790108.post-707666710946155952006-11-08T16:00:00.000+08:002006-11-08T16:00:00.000+08:00DG,
oh thank you. :)
1+2mom,
cannot lah, my Xuan ...DG,<br />oh thank you. :)<br /><br />1+2mom,<br />cannot lah, my Xuan always want ppl to carry, if one ppl carry one during the whole shopping session we sure die b4 home.shiaulinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17684184440406178117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10790108.post-68976378621914852942006-11-07T00:14:00.000+08:002006-11-07T00:14:00.000+08:00Do what you want and what you like, but dun just t...Do what you want and what you like, but dun just think xuan is your everything if not he will be very stressful.<br /><br />for me, 2 is just nice. Go out one ppl hold 1 kid, but god know me want to stop at 2 children so gave me an extra for me :)1+2momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13999760967703278267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10790108.post-76027879595019502712006-11-06T13:40:00.000+08:002006-11-06T13:40:00.000+08:00your new template very nice ;)your new template very nice ;)domesticgoddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04097376993111688723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10790108.post-13797384819856784832006-11-06T10:01:00.000+08:002006-11-06T10:01:00.000+08:00文蜂起吾,
钱不是最主要的问题,而是环境的因素比较大。以学佛的角度看事情又有另一番解释,人生在这世上...文蜂起吾,<br />钱不是最主要的问题,而是环境的因素比较大。以学佛的角度看事情又有另一番解释,人生在这世上其实是痛苦的,要求悟求解脱而脱离六道轮回永离生死。<br /><br />再说我们如果抱着给大孩子有一个玩伴的心理的话,万一事情不是你想像那样,到头来他埋怨你生多一个人来争宠那就弄巧成拙了。我姐就有这样的例子,她大儿子现在都已经三年级了还是会埋怨他妈妈生弟弟的事。始终不能释怀。<br /><br />多一个孩子是会让人有更多的动力去赚钱,但是却阻碍你作移民的打算,让人多一份操心和烦恼。<br /><br />青苹果,<br />我教导孩子的宗旨是要教他做个好孩子,聪明与否不是很重要。宁愿他是平凡的好人,也不要他做聪明的坏蛋。<br /><br />至于姓氏的问题,阿轩又不是姓什么特别的姓氏如‘钱’(呵呵,你知谁家孩子姓钱啦对不?她都不烦我烦什么。)或姓‘司马’或姓‘欧阳’酱的姓氏,李氏满街是啦,多一个不多,少一个不少。如果孩子可以同意,我不希望他有孩子。shiaulinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17684184440406178117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10790108.post-67750531445375979082006-11-03T13:45:00.000+08:002006-11-03T13:45:00.000+08:00hmm, this is a big decision indeed. personally I d...hmm, this is a big decision indeed. personally I don't see any problems with this decision, if you're fine with it, and if you won't regret on not having a daughter for yourselves. but i have to remind you, though, that you won't impose too many stress on Xuan because this is a major complaint I have heard from my friends who are the single child in the family. It is stressful to be the centre of attention all the time; it is stressful because single child will be the 'only' hope of the family; it is stressful to be the only son of the family and have more son in order to carry the surnames ... etc.<br /><br />Just a kind reminder. I know this won't happen in your family. I am sure everything will be alright...Greenapplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18070196841323502250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10790108.post-39166226794031292692006-11-03T11:21:00.000+08:002006-11-03T11:21:00.000+08:00這也是我曾經和太太考慮過的問題,從太多角度來看,反而縛手縛腳。
錢、花費、負擔,在還未發達或中馬票之...這也是我曾經和太太考慮過的問題,從太多角度來看,反而縛手縛腳。<br />錢、花費、負擔,在還未發達或中馬票之前,永遠是一個解決不到生不多一個孩子的問題。<br />我的想法是,主要給孩子多一個伴,讓他學會分享,不會成為溫室小花,不會變成小霸王。<br /><br />而且,多一個孩子,多一分樂趣和溫馨,若要提到動力,那多一個孩子就有更大的動力去賺更多的錢:-) 。Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com