生活点滴 Snippets of Life

小小好帮手

2008-03-19T11:13:00.001+08:00

小趣事　～　山

2008-02-27T22:46:00.004+08:00

天气好，衣服洗得快也干得快。将干净衣服分类后褶着褶着，轩儿指着一堆堆的衣服说，

“这里一座大山，这里又一座小山，旁边又一座小山，再旁边又一座小山... “

然后走到我身后，

”后面还有一只小山羊！“

（轩儿属羊，耍野时我们称他小山羊）

轩言轩语

2008-02-01T06:06:00.000+08:00

清晨带轩上厕所后没办法再入睡，就干脆起来读依猫。读下读下发现抽屉里夹着几账纸条就顺手拿来一看，原来是早期搜集的轩言轩语。

“妈咪你看。一本大人的书，一本小人的书。”
“哈哈，是一本大人的书，一本小孩的书。不是小人，是小孩。”
“小人是谁？”
“呵呵，小人是坏蛋来的。小人的意思就是坏蛋咯。”
“哦，大人是大人，小人是 naughty 。”

“这是大人的，这是小孩的。你是大人还是小孩？”
“我是大孩。”

“我还没有长大咧！”
“是咯，你几时才会长大？”
“两点咯。”

要求换光碟～
“我不要看这个！”
“刚才看到这里，继续看下去咯。”
“我不要看下去，我要看上来！”

轩惹恼我～
“好孩子妈咪疼，坏孩子妈咪就会打。说！你要做好孩子还是坏孩子？”
“我要做小孩子”
“讲！是好孩子还是坏孩子？”
“还是小孩子。”

刚睡醒～
“下来自己走好不好？”
（摇摇头）
“我 battery low 了，不能走了。”

拿着藤条挥向我的背！
“妈咪我 yang-yang 你！”
（打是疼？）

拿我的手提指着 display 相片问轩～
“谁来的？”
“呵呵，naughty 来的。”

“啊，你酱大力咬妈咪的手指做么？等下妈咪手指断在你的嘴里怎么办？”
“吃掉咯，然后再买过一个接回去咯。”

没大没小～I
“妈咪你快点来，我叫你来你听到没有？做么还不来，再不来等下我 piak 你了吓。”

没大没小～II
轩看见我在洗厕所～
“哗！你做么洗厕所洗到酱？哗！很够力咧，我要打你了。”
“喂，你在讲什么吓！”
“我在骂你咯。”

没大没小～III
轩洗完澡出来后大声叫囔～
“Daddy, your turn now!”
“Daddy,　你快点来eh！你做么不听话了？你 naughty 做么还不来？”
“快点来咧，你不听我的话了，你很 naughty ！”
碎碎念～～

说梦

2008-01-08T23:39:00.000+08:00

有人升职，
有人降职，
有人革职，
有人辞职。

所以像我这样以家庭为事业，
主职为相夫、职责为教子的一个女人。

不愿升职，
不愿降职，
不愿革职，
也不愿辞职。

保持原状是上上之策。

但是，
昨夜发了个梦，梦里见到老公抱着情人。

酸...

忙、盲、莽

2008-01-06T22:34:00.000+08:00

最近比较忙。
忙着吃、喝、玩、乐、喜、怒、愁。
还有，忙着病。
病，很久没有病了。
所以，头脑空空，没东西写。
最后，拜拜，睡觉去。

无聊。

太阳在那里？#2

2007-12-06T15:53:00.000+08:00

天空一直下着长命雨...

轩儿：“早上下雨下雨下到下午也下雨下雨，没有太阳；今天太阳一直在地球里咯。”

晚上太阳在那里？

2007-12-05T23:19:00.000+08:00

今早为轩儿洗澡，时值太阳刚好晒进洗澡间...

轩儿：“妈咪现在是早上吗？”
轩妈：“哦，是呀。”
轩儿：“早上就到下午就到中午就到傍晚然后就到晚上是吗？”
轩妈：“是中午才到下午。”
轩儿：“早上太阳是在这里（左手摆一摆指着东方），下午和傍晚太阳是在这里（右手摆一摆指着西方）。晚上太阳就在地球里面。”
轩妈：“吓！在地球里面？”
轩儿：“是！”（非常自信的回答。）

哦，怪不得全球暖化日渐严重还不是真的没理由的。连太阳在晚上都躲进地球里面了，还怎能不加温呢？

感动

2007-12-05T22:47:00.001+08:00

五月妈妈@美美阿姨给轩儿画了张非常棒的生日祝贺卡...

真的太美了！谢谢... 衷心感谢...

Sungai Congkak 23/11/2007

2007-12-05T17:36:00.000+08:00

幽静美丽的 Sungai Congkak

我可爱的宝贝～轩儿

同学们在河边嬉戏

两母子打水战

放生的小鱼儿在河里自由自在的游泳

越忙越兴奋

2007-11-29T23:49:00.000+08:00

明天最后一天上课，放假了！开始有点忙，很多事情需要好好安排。

＊1/12　到 Mid Valley 去飞发，然后买礼物给老师。

＊7/12　再一次和轩儿的同学家长们去郊游及放生，顺便为轩儿庆祝生日。

＊9/12　去波德申吹海风、堆城堡。然后回 Tampin。

＊10/12　到 JB 拜访五姐去，小住一星期。

暂时编排到这日期，往后再另作安排。

兴奋！兴奋！

农历十月十四，晴

2007-11-23T22:40:00.000+08:00

一年幼儿园生活将过去，还剩下两个星期的补课就结束了。非常感恩老师的辛勤教导，轩儿在一年里面竟熟背了好多经典，如：

〈弟子规〉
〈三字经〉
〈文昌帝君阴骘文〉
〈太上感应篇〉

虽然现阶段只要求他们熟背不要求理解，但熟后尔能生智慧。经过多遍的重复阅读，他已渐渐的能够了解个中意思。然而经文中的意思确实也隐约地影响着他的品行，善根越渐粗壮。不但如此，而且生字也学会了很多。以下是轩儿读诵〈太上感应篇〉的短片与大家分享。

轩儿学校所采用的教科本。发现吗？全采用繁体文！很好的开始，要知道从繁体去简体总会比从简体回繁体容易得多了。

农历十月二十一，晴

2007-11-21T22:34:00.000+08:00

一家人躺在床上，轩儿正喝着奶。见老公睡的正甜一时兴起越过去抱了抱他。

轩儿：“嘿，yang-yang 爹地没有 yang-yang 我？！”
轩妈：“哈！吃什么干醋？妈咪爱你，爱大家。“
轩儿：“呵，妈咪也爱爹地。这么贪心爱这么多人。”
o_O"

农历十月初九，晴

2007-11-18T22:48:00.000+08:00

回溯做包点的趣事。其实包点真的非常容易做，跟着以下的食谱试一试多做几次一定会成功。

包／馒头（首选采用全有机食料）
面粉　500g
麦片　200g
酵母Yeast　11g　（选用经济包 Instant yeast）
糖　200g
清水　约1.5碗（要凭手感，不干不湿为佳）
食油　半碗
葡萄干Raisin　随兴　
芝麻　随兴
Pandan leaf 香叶作垫底

以上材料搓成团后置入蒸箩上盖，待发（发酵）约半小时。煮水沸后蒸约20分钟既成。步骤简单，但难在搓面团上必须下点工夫。大家不妨试一试。

可以尝试捏成多种款式

食后评语：
轩妈：“怎样，好吃吗？”

轩爸：“... ...”（摇头...　然后猛摇头）
轩儿：“好吃，很好吃！谢谢妈咪做这么好吃的包给我吃。”（笑容甜到不得了）

一个天堂、一个地狱。个人口味不同，在此祝你好运。

今天到此为止，下回再update关于游山玩水郊游乐之点滴。

农历十月初六，雷雨

2007-11-15T22:36:00.000+08:00

快快、短短的update，没时间。

因幼儿园场地要让出给准备佛七用，所以轩儿明天开始放假了。然后我们也相约了轩儿的老师以及同学和家长们一起游山玩水去。

现在忙着收拾行李，回来再稍做报告。

农历十月初三，晴

2007-11-12T22:30:00.000+08:00

礼貌记
轩妈：“好吃吗，轩？”
轩儿：“很好吃，谢谢妈咪煮这么好吃的食物给我吃。”

轩妈：“咳，好累！”
轩儿：“妈咪来你坐下，我帮你捶背按摩。”

轩儿：“妈咪，我做完功课了。请问我可以玩玩具吗？
妈咪：“你做完啦，好吧去玩吧。”
轩儿：“谢谢妈咪！”

轩妈：“轩快停，不要再弄！”
轩儿：“对不起妈咪，非常对不起妈咪。”

感动记
轩儿：“妈咪，我很喜欢你！“
轩妈：“妈咪也很喜欢你。”

妈咪：“妈咪要去煮饭了。”
轩儿：“妈咪你不要去先，等我KISS你一下你才去。”

轩儿：“妈咪，我非常、非常、非常爱你！”
轩妈：“宝贝，妈咪也非常爱你噢！”

妈咪：“轩拿，给你吃。”
轩儿：“hmm... 很好吃，妈咪来你也吃下。”

孩儿长大了...

明天做闲妻凉母，早上送了孩子去上学后不用回家打扫屋子。事因明天约了幼儿园那班太太们到其中一个的家做包去。

午餐呢，不用煮吗？
就吃包送蘑菇汤吧！

简单，爽！

农历九月二十九，晴

2007-11-08T22:52:00.001+08:00

奇怪...　刚立冬，为什么属于春节的烟花爆竹声却响彻云霄、连绵不绝呢？燃放鞭炮原是华人春节典庆必备的风俗文化，却被禁了。这时候出现的爆竹声响又为了什么？有何意义？不知所谓！

今天本来约定要去KLCC公园的，但被连夜来的一场雨给搞垮了。直到清晨还下着绵绵细雨，到处都是湿漉漉的当然不用说公园里的玩具也都泡水了。当告诉轩儿去不成时他极度失望及苦苦的哀求着我们带他去。心软了，我们就去付那昂贵的Kizsports让宝贝儿子圆了心愿。玩得不亦乐乎。

当中也有发生一些事情让我有所感触。发现现在很多父母都不会惜福、不珍惜与孩子相处的时光，让孩子的童年记忆里充满着佣人的身影...　看不见父母。再者，让我看到所谓的家教已经完全败坏无存。一些父母对孩子犯了错却视若无睹，既不责备也不加以纠正。

哀也。

农历九月二十八，晴／阵雨

2007-11-07T23:02:00.000+08:00

不行了，今晚一定要早睡！老公决定明天要带轩儿去KLCC Park旧地重游，一大早就要出发了。轩儿期待着，兴奋不已... ...

老公有上载了轩儿在上一次到公园玩乐时拍下的趣味短片与大家分享。请游览：

KLCC公园游

轩儿兴奋地好像在玩telematch酱，淘得很。

农历九月二十六，散布阵雨

2007-11-05T23:28:00.000+08:00

不知为什么今天总是感觉很累，可是又没时间休息。所以现在简短写一写就要收档见周公去啦。

要分享一下从轩儿那里学来的另一首歌，歌名叫’好习惯‘

好习惯

站像一棵松
坐像一口鐘
睡像一張弓
走路像春風

微笑掛臉上
時時好心腸
養成好習慣
生活好輕鬆

背熟它以时时警惕着自己的言行举止，尤其是’微笑挂脸上，时时好心肠‘这两句说的好。

农历九月二十四，阵雨

2007-11-03T22:37:00.000+08:00

自从轩看了二十四孝卡通动画后他常会要求我叫他“轩儿”。从今以后我就在此称轩为‘轩儿’吧。

今天是轩儿学校的家长联谊会，简称家长日。孩子们的表演真是精彩，唱的歌又非常棒！我们家长的心里既是高兴又是感动。轩儿还喂父亲吃水果及行三跪拜礼，以答谢父亲的养育之恩。当然，我们都感动极了。非常感恩老师们的辛勤教导。

睡前，
轩爸：“boy，刚才在学校唱的叫什么歌呀？”
轩儿：“是叫‘眼睛’。”
轩爸：“咦，是吗？那有没有叫‘嘴巴’，还是‘鼻子’的歌呢？”
轩儿：“... ... ... （忘了他和他爸讲了什么，之后就听到他唱...）三只老虎　三只老虎　咬他屁股... ”
轩妈：“吓，什么呀？”
轩爸：“他唱‘屁股’的歌啦。”
我晕... ...

轩儿老师也有教他们念‘心命诗’

心命诗

心好命又好，富贵直到老。
命好心不好，福变为祸兆。
心好命不好，祸转为福报。
心命俱不好，遭殃且贫夭。

心可挽乎命，最要存仁道。
命实造于心，吉凶惟人召。
信命不修心，阴阳恐虚矫。
修心一听命，天地自相保。

非常棒的诗，原与大家共勉之。

农历九月二十二，晴

2007-11-01T22:34:00.000+08:00

老公买了一条漂亮的围巾给我，是我喜欢的白色衬彩色绣花。很美，谢谢老公。

终于有机会摄下轩的演唱，在这儿与大家分享。

这里还有一个NG版，可爱的。

以及轩的一些抽象画：

外星一家人

原始狗壁画？

另类加油站

古灵精怪

农历九月二十一，晴

2007-10-31T21:08:00.000+08:00

一大早轩就囔着要打电话给daddy，所以给他打了之后整天都没有老公的sms。也许现在老公也快回到KLIA了吧，然后就可以知道到底他有没有给我带回什么手信。嘻嘻...　期待着。

轩的老师最近教了他一首新歌，他今天终于唱给我听了：

眼睛
天上的星星　妈妈的眼睛　
一闪一闪亮晶晶　照亮我的心

池塘的星星　爸爸的眼睛
一波一波亮晶晶　清洗我的心

可惜相机给老公带去了，没办法拍下。明天可要记得收录起来，upload上网让大家分享轩甜美的歌声。

农历九月二十，晴

2007-10-30T22:59:00.001+08:00

老公还在Phuket，收到他发来短讯：
09:43:55　Heavy rain now :-( kau lat now...
好啊！生活少了我们哪会精彩？

15:51:40　Wacoal bra? What size? I am at shopping center now.
那儿出名的名牌便宜货，当然要！
连老婆什么码子都不懂，比个手势量一量不就行了吗，酱都不会？咳...

17:06:07　Keke not enough time liao. Samsonite here cheaper by rm50++, the smaller one that similar to mine around rm200.
买不成‘眼镜’买bag也好，杀！
之后没有回应了...　也许晕了吧。

轩今天吃很多青菜和椰菜花，真乖。轩现在星期一至五跟我吃素，拜六和礼拜随缘。

农历九月十九，阴／雨

2007-10-29T21:39:00.000+08:00

今天是观世音菩萨出家纪念日。
老公星期天一大早就去了Phuket‘玩’，公司派去的。

轩的幼儿园今天拍全体照。张老师说轩的表现很好，连胡老师都赞他乖。

欣慰。

回来了！

2007-10-29T21:12:00.001+08:00

休息了好长的一段日子，想想也该做点事情了。往后的张贴将以写日记的方式纪录生活上的点点滴滴。不会很精彩但平淡中却带着丝丝的幸福...

懒啊！

2007-03-15T23:53:00.000+08:00

呵呵，不知不觉已经‘停产’了好一段日子。可惜心神还没回来，会继续再回到冬眠。

想念我和轩的话不妨游览我老公的部落格，他心情好时或吃饱没事做时偶尔还会提起我们的。

忙啊！

2007-01-04T23:38:00.000+08:00

轩终于上学了，忙啊！

轩其实才刚满三岁（年终宝宝），总不能期待他现在就可以独自呆在课室里上课吧。是的，还是会陪读直到他认识环境和老师后才‘放手’让老师接班。尤其轩的个性孤僻，不善交友也不多言语，难啊。

在此慎重宣布部落格暂时休息。

Not so merry X'mas

2006-12-22T02:19:00.000+08:00

Christmas is around the corner, instead of White Christmas we have Wet Christmas this year. Everyone knows that most of the places in south Malaysia are in massive flood, that's including my home town. Fortunately, my mom's place doesn't affected. Though my mom is safe and sound at home, but I know she needs our care and love very much, especially in these gloomy day. Probably will be back to visit her this coming week end.

Why, however, Merry Christmas everyone !!

尘埃落定

2006-12-19T16:33:00.000+08:00

终于确定了轩明年的入学资格，入读幼儿园了！

学校：阿弥陀佛净宗学会幼儿园
学费：一律免费
资格：四岁以上，父母必须与老师有一样的思想及目标。
人数：8 - 10 位，只此一班。
条件：必须连续上三年，不得半途休学。
主修：弟子规，三字经，道德与人伦。
主语：华语，六岁以后读弟子规英文版。
时间：0830 - 1230 星期一至星期五。
开学日期：明年一月

唉，很难想像这么快轩就要上幼儿园了。光阴似箭。

后注：忘了最重要的一点，小孩在那儿就读后的...
好处：修身／心养性，开发无量智慧。

爱心便当

2006-12-19T10:27:00.000+08:00

我儿为我准备的爱心便当...

真窝心。:-)

问题～死掉

2006-12-14T16:51:00.000+08:00

假如你有一个刚满三岁的孩子，然后他向你提出以下的问题或说出以下的话，请问你怎么处理或回答？

１.　什么是死掉？
２.　为什么死掉？
３.　死掉怎样的？
４.　我要死掉。
５.　我要弄你／他死掉。

向他解释深一点他不明白，解释浅一点他会错意。请大家来帮帮忙，真够伤脑筋的。

幼儿园

2006-12-11T10:40:00.001+08:00

让轩参加了两天的幼儿园免费试读班，讲是试读但其实也没有真的教课。因刚好遇到假期前的最后两天，所以老师们都是给孩子们开心的玩着。本来的目的是要去了解他们的课程和教法啦，既然没得看没得比较，让轩参着玩看看他能不能够适应咯。

第一天。
一进门口轩还蛮紧张的，拼了小命紧缠着我脖子不肯下来。后来老师们见他那么怕，就叫我陪着他进里边走走玩玩认识一下新朋友。开始时他真的不肯和其他人交谈，对老师的问题也是十问十不答。老师给糖果他不要（虽然我不是很赞成小孩吃糖果，但为了要轩sporting点就叫他拿了）；给粘泥玩他也不要；给他最喜欢的星星贴纸他也不要。后来看着其他小朋友玩着玩着他才慢慢的活动了起来，开始顽皮起来了... 咳。

我看那幼儿园最吸引轩的是那散乱不全的 lego，然后就是一位很慈母型的华裔老师。当所有小朋友都在课室外的空地上和老师一起玩游戏时，轩却拉着我进课室玩 lego，选择不参与。＝____=III

第二天。
因为是上学的最后一天，所以幼儿园举办了个服装表演小派对。看见那些小朋友们个个打扮漂亮帅气的向同学朋友们炫耀着，还真希望阿轩以后能够参与。当游戏开始后，轩又显得意兴阑珊拉着我到课室里画黑板去，又选择不参与。真的非常 anti social。

两天的试读课程就酱过了，要了解的事没了解到但倒看清了这间幼儿园其实还真不是个理想的幼儿园。不会选择让轩上这间幼儿园，原因有以下几点：

１.　幼儿园设在大路旁的店屋一楼上，空间很小而且没有草场和露天空地。欠缺大自然。

２.　老师有点欠缺耐性和不够专业，常对小朋友大声呼喝表现得不够友善。为人师表最基本的条件也没有。

３.　老师让小朋友看 Power Ranger DVD！打打杀杀的戏我最反对让小朋友看，而且老师酱的做法最不可行。

４.　老师喜欢用糖果零食来引诱和奖励小朋友。不健康的方法。

５.　早上班已经爆满了，如果轩要读就只得进下午班了。下午是给这么小的孩子休息的，这也不行。

拜拜，后会无期。

注：我们试读的幼儿园是一所连锁性大型名校。

花脸猫

2006-12-05T13:30:00.000+08:00

怎么形容我现在的情形？

轩最近有点伤风咳嗽。刚刚我塞了一大口的果条汤＋鱼圆＋红萝卜进他口，紧接着他对着我的脸打了两次喷嚏。

=___="

回来了！

2006-11-30T10:48:00.000+08:00

趁着老公出外公干的日子，我带着轩黏着老姐去了４天3夜的金马伦高原游，昨晚终于回来了。独自带着超级捣蛋的孩子出门的感想除了累，还是累。虽然很多时候会在大庭广众前给孩子激到破口大骂仪态尽失以外，这次的出游还算累得蛮开心的。

老天爷对我们还不薄，４天里只有几小时的小雨外其它都是蓝天。拥抱大自然后的心情是笔墨难以形容的，～清静。

如果没办法移民，我希望老后会在那买地种菜过个清静的晚年。

轩言轩语 V

2006-11-22T09:22:00.000+08:00

为什么～

轩轩：“妈咪，为什么刚才掉了一个衣服？”
妈咪：“不是一件啦，是很多件咧。呵呵...”
轩轩：“为什么很多的？”
妈咪：“因为很多衣服很重咯。”
轩轩：“为什么很重呢？”
妈咪：“因为太多衣服咯。”
轩轩：“为什么太多衣服了？”
... ... ... ...
没完没了... ... ...

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妈咪怕～

轩轩：“妈咪，又下雨了咧！”
妈咪：“哦，是呵。“
轩轩：“嘿，有闪电！我抱著你。”
妈咪：“为什么？你怕闪电？”
轩轩：“不是，是妈咪怕所以我抱著你。”

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激爆～

妈咪：“为什么你没喝完 nen-nen ？”
轩轩：“因为我 naughty 咯。”　
（一副根本不在乎的表情继续玩车。）

妈咪：“为什么刚才没有叫人？”
轩轩：“因为我不要叫吗，我不想叫吗，我不喜欢叫吗～！”

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老人精～

轩轩：“妈咪，做么会下雨的？”
妈咪：“为什么？”
轩轩：“我不知道咧。”
妈咪：“我也不知道咧。”
轩轩：（摇一摇头）“啧... ...”

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打电话～

轩轩：“Hallo，妈咪你在哪里？”
妈咪：“嗨，我在家里。轩轩你在哪里？”
轩轩：“我在电话里面。”
妈咪：“哈，在电话里面吖？在里面做什么？”
轩轩：“我在打电话给妈咪咯。”

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暴力～

我要拆掉你的眼睛，
拆掉你的头，拆掉你的手，
拆掉你的脚，拆掉你的身体，
丢进（马）桶，开水装满水，
然后 flush 掉你！
哈哈！

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暴力下雨颂～

下雨下，下雨下，
下到妈咪断掉。
下雨下，下雨下，
下到妈咪的头断掉... ...
（重复又重复）

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Xuan: "What are you doing?"
Me: "I'm writting something."
Xuan: "Something strange gon non ( going on)!" (learnt this from Pool Bear)

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四＊＊新＊＊享受

2006-11-19T11:42:00.000+08:00

昨天是今年里最兴奋的一天！昨天我们～～
买了一间新公寓，乘了三辆新汽车（两辆 Honda City 和一辆 Toyota Innova）！！！

公寓是自己的，车子是别人的。但我还真的满开心的。

梦该醒

2006-11-18T00:25:00.000+08:00

老公 YM 我这网址叫我去读，发人深思。
在这里和大家分享。

读后再思考一下我们的未来及我们孩子的前景会是什么样子的。哀哉。

梦该醒，需要另找出路了。

烦也

2006-11-17T22:37:00.000+08:00

一个嫌太少，两个嫌太多，
又不可能有中和的一个半。

唉...　怎办？

算了...

2006-11-15T10:43:00.000+08:00

呵呵...　之前那骂人的张贴已经删除，牢骚发完了气也消了收着它不是很好。我不想孩子以后看到会轻视那样的男人，因酱子的男人实在太多了。（希望他以后不会是其中一个）:P

冤家宜解不宜结。算了吧！

无聊的游戏

2006-11-10T14:50:00.000+08:00

儿子现在超爱玩这游戏：

轩将他的玩具 van 放进他的裤袋后，说：
轩轩：“妈咪，你问我为什么没有 van 的？”
妈咪：“为什么没有 van 的？”
轩轩：“有有有，哪妈咪我买给你。”（从裤袋拿出玩具 van 交给我）

重复又重复...　重复又重复...　重复 N 遍也不累... 无聊咧！
@_@ ll

心动...

2006-11-08T11:45:00.000+08:00

妈咪：“轩，你要妈咪生 baby 吗？”
轩轩：“要！我要自己冲凉自己睡觉的、要 yang-yang baby 的，不可以打 baby 的，全部车要给 baby 玩的，全部玩具要跟 baby share-share 玩的，我有 good boy 的。”

轩一口气讲完，我听后感动到快要飚眼泪了。
唉，这孩子...　也许他意识到父母决定放弃给他制造弟妹了？然后制造假象存心靠害，等你生了以后再露出他的真面目那时就后悔末及了。

唉，还是别受骗了。这小子通常都是讲一套做一套的，口是心非他属一流。了解轩和亲眼见过他怎样对待小朋友的人都会明白我说什么。千万要小心三思，别让他的这些举动把我们的决心给动摇了。

举棋不定

2006-11-03T09:45:00.000+08:00

轩快要三岁了，再生还是不生这个问题又再缠绕着我们转了。生多一个好让轩有个玩伴，但生多一个家里的开销又会再涨一倍，是真的有点吃不消。最重要的是以治轩的性格来看，他是不会欢迎其他人来分享父母的爱。

每次读完报纸新闻后不生的念头就会很强烈，心想除非我们中大彩巨奖全家移民去外国那就不妨再生多一个。在这里当一等公民不见得有什么好，在外边当二等公民却不见得不好。这样写了不知会不会又被XX法令给拖上台宰了，但是就是不吐不快。

重质不重量，所以一个就够。老公说将来如果有本事要送他到外国读书定居，然后举家移民过去在那养老。现在说起来好像是一个梦想，但真的想把梦变成真实、变成目标、变成动力。

独生子其实也没什么不好，
小时侯父母是他的一切；
求学时朋友是他的一切；
工作后同事是他的一切；
恋爱后恋人是他的一切；
结婚后爱人是他的一切；
有小朋友后孩子是他的一切。
然而孩子大了老伴又成为他的一切；
如不幸老伴先走了，老朋友又成为他的一切。
会寂寞吗？会孤单吗？不会。他的一生没有空白过。

目前为止还没有任何理可以说服我再生宝宝，老公没意见。怀胎生子的历程曾经经历，已经拥有，就足够了。

再说孩子其实是债；来讨的也好来还的也好，总之就是越少越好。

这是一项重大的决定（至少对我们来说），所以我们需要更多的支持和肯定。

彩虹

2006-10-29T23:13:00.000+08:00

在下了一场大雨后的傍晚，我见到了一道完美弧线的彩虹。心情顿时也变得美好起来，很多童年的回忆也突然间涌现在脑海。印象中我曾经也见过如此完美弧线的彩虹，但颜色和弧线没有今天这么的清晰。红、橙、黄、绿、蓝、靛、紫；七彩分明高挂青天。

彩虹，一路陪伴着我们归家。

时间

2006-10-28T23:34:00.000+08:00

今早赶着出门...

妈咪：“阿轩乖，快点喝奶。妈咪没有时间了。”
轩轩：“妈咪nah，我给你时间。”
（伸手出来假装要给我）

Indian Twinkle Star

2006-10-19T10:40:00.000+08:00

Twinkle twinkle little star
How I wonder what you are
Up above the world so high
Like a diamond in the sky
Twinkle twinkle little star
How I wonder what you are

When the blazing sun is gone
When he nothing shines upon
Then you show your little light
Twinkle twinkle all the night
Twinkle twinkle little star
How I wonder what you are

Off He Gone Again

2006-10-18T17:21:00.000+08:00

In YM:
Hubby: "@ westin now... hmmmm not bad.."
shiaulin: "don't u ever try the 'heavenly bed' with any woman yah.. u will never reaches to the heaven but hell."
Hubby: "kekeke"

My hubby flew to Beijing again last night and will stay until Saturday. This trip he staying in the new Westin Hotel, this hotel has just started their operation today.

ok, I admit I miss him. Yes, I do.

Check out the new related post at his blog

细水长流

2006-10-17T14:04:00.000+08:00

我一直都很喜欢的一首歌　～　细水长流
词曲：梁文福

年少时候谁没有梦
无意之中你将心愿透露
就在你生日的时候我将小小口琴送
最难忘记你的笑容
友情的细水慢慢流流进了你我的心中
曾在球场边为你欢呼你跌伤我背负
夜里流星飞渡想象着他日的路途
晚风听着我们壮志无数
年少时候谁没有愁
满腔愤慨唯有你能听得懂
每当我失意的时候你将那首歌吹奏
琴声悠悠解我情愁
岁月的细水慢慢流流到了别离的时候
轻拍你的肩听我说朋友不要太惆怅
霓虹纵然再嚣张我们的步履有方向
成败不论切莫将昔日遗忘
多年以后又再相逢
我们都有了疲倦的笑容
问一声我的朋友何时再为我吹奏
是否依旧是否依旧
岁月的细水慢慢流流到了别离的时候
轻拍你的肩听我说朋友不要太惆怅
霓虹纵然再嚣张我们的步履有方向
成败不论切莫将昔日遗忘
多年以后又再相逢
我们都有了疲倦的笑容
问一声我的朋友何时再为我吹奏
是否依旧是否依旧
人生的际遇千百种但有知心长相重
人愿长久水愿长流年少时候

＊特别多谢双喜妈的相助

天意弄人心情写照

2006-10-16T10:33:00.000+08:00

有些事情你不要它发生，但不幸发生了你会很无奈。
有些事情你期待它发生，而真的发生了你会很兴奋。
有些事情你不要它发生，而又没有发生你会很庆幸。
有些事情你期待它发生，却完全没发生你会很失望。

要的时候不来，影子都没有。
不要的时候却围着身边团团转，阴魂不散。

＊改了标题，我不信天意。我相信人为因素影响比较多。

狡猾？聪明？

2006-10-16T00:04:00.000+08:00

当爹地不在时...
妈咪：“轩，你比较喜欢爹地还是妈咪？”
轩轩：”我比较喜欢妈咪。”

当妈咪不在时...
爹地：“boy，你比较喜欢爹地还是妈咪？”
轩轩：“我比较喜欢爹地。”

爹地：“哈哈！好奸哩。”
妈咪：“真聪明！”

三岁还不到的孩子就这么狡猾了，好样的！前（钱）途无量！哈哈...

Cat Face 猫脸

2006-10-11T13:09:00.000+08:00

Thanks Boy, Mummy really have a good laugh today.

无厘头母子兵

2006-10-06T17:10:00.000+08:00

轩现在超爱玩（假假）打针。刚好现在患了小伤风，但又特别讨厌让我清理鼻孔。洗完澡替他清耳孔时...

轩轩：”妈咪帮我打针。“
妈咪：（哇，有机可乘）”好哇，你伤风鼻塞了妈咪给你鼻孔打针。“
（哈！有效，轩静静让我用棉花棒清理鼻孔）
妈咪：”OK，好了。“
轩轩：”妈咪我还要打！“
妈咪：”不要了啦，已经打好了。“
轩轩：”还要！我还要打！我还要打！“
（轩不停闹别扭）
妈咪：”还要打啊？再打妈咪就用藤鞭打的了。要我用藤鞭打吗？“
轩轩：”不要！“
妈咪：”那要用什么打？“
轩轩：”要用挖鼻屎的打。“

槟岛之旅～相见欢

2006-10-06T11:53:00.000+08:00

终于和这位在部落格认识很久了的漂亮妈妈DG见面，肥仔读到这里一定恨得要死因为人家就是不要见他。:P　虽然是第一次见面，但气氛却很好很轻松快乐的交谈。DG就像邻家小女孩，而且是漂亮随和的那种。见到她就是有太多的羡慕，羡慕她的聪明美丽；羡慕她有对漂亮可爱的宝宝（尤其她女儿，真是极点！我的轩很识货还牵了人家的小手呢！有图为证，嘻。）；羡慕她有个高大英俊的老公（虽然我的也不错，只是不够高大但胜在够衬我咯）。羡慕她有妈妈帮忙看小孩（有人可以分担小孩的事）；羡慕她小孩会说方言（说福建话）；羡慕她家住岛上（可以天天看海）等等等...　

DG,　珍惜拥有。

牵牵小手，两小无猜。

中秋节快乐

2006-10-05T22:17:00.000+08:00

玩了几天之后，又病了几天。还没完全痊愈，但是明天是中秋所以要在这儿作首诗送给大家。

中秋夜月圆又圆，
三代欢聚庆团圆；
荧光烛火阑珊处，
品茶赏月话当年。

祝大家：
中秋节快乐

骗人

2006-10-01T01:15:00.000+08:00

老公骗我！之前已经怀疑而直到刚才终于证实了。他编的谎不是吃不吃饭酱的芝麻小事，是关系到信任。

给老公：
１。你瞒着什么快从实招来！
２。还有，为什么要造谎？

再次提醒你，不要滥用我对你的信任。讨厌鬼！

留言关闭

出阁　／　出游

2006-09-29T23:23:00.000+08:00

一位好朋友兼旧同事明天出阁，要去凑热闹顺便当超龄姐妹。最开心的人也许是新娘的妈，嫁女儿有什么值得那么开心呢？呵呵...　以现在嫁娶的风气来说，“娶了媳妇就多了半个女儿，嫁了女儿却多了一个儿子”。但这样的方程式不是人人都可享用，像我妈就嫁了我这个女儿却只多了１／４个儿子，比一半还少。

～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～

后天、大后天和大大后天我们会出游－－到槟城去。

祝我们旅途愉快。

洗衣？煮衣？！

2006-09-28T00:35:00.000+08:00

奇怪，怎么这次衣服会洗成这样的？！

原来是那小瓜乘我不留意时对正在工作中的洗衣机动了手脚...

水温被调到最高了，衣服给煮熟了...　唉...

淘气

2006-09-26T23:09:00.000+08:00

今天傍晚轩躺在房里的瓷砖地上，我也躺了下来。看见他扒扒后颈便问是不是又给蚊子咬了？轩一个翻身仆在我身上淘着脸说：

轩轩：“不是蚊子是spider来的。妈咪 spider 叫什么名吓？“
妈咪：”... ... “
轩轩：“Rabbit 叫什么？”

我知道他指的是这只-->

妈咪：“他叫 Bunny。”
轩轩：“妈咪，spider　叫什么？”
妈咪：”叫李治轩。“
轩大笑...
轩轩：“不是不是，妈咪不要讲，（掩着我的口）Spider 叫...”
还没等他说完我接：“李治轩！”
轩又大笑...
重复了很多遍和不停的大笑后...

轩轩：“妈咪不要讲啦！”
妈咪：“okok, 你讲妈咪不讲了。”（窃笑）
轩轩：“Spider 叫... 啊比果。”
轩得意忘形大笑，然后一个翻身... 砰！！
后果：

没有见血，只是瓷砖接口处在他的脑壳外留下深深的烙印。

品与学

2006-09-24T23:32:00.000+08:00

孩子一天一天的长大，却一天比一天的难以捉摸。几秒钟前还是很可爱的孩子，在几秒钟后却可能变成了魔鬼。天天与他玩着心里游戏，观察他的心情、观摩他的反应。打的、骂的、劝的、求的样样来，还是无法征服他那颗叛逆及充满挑战的心。

现在我觉得自己正在面对人生中最艰难的挑战－－教育孩子。教得好光宗耀祖、造福人间。相反的如果教不好，愧对社会、无地自容。就这一点已教我心力交瘁了。

这里指的教并不是指教育，这么神圣的差事就交给伟大的老师们。我并不是要推卸责任而是无能为力，自己的学业从来就和‘名列前茅’或是'金榜题名'挂不上钩，怎么来教？我唯一可以教育孩子明白什么是‘礼仪廉耻’，这是道德课题应该没问题。现在的孩子真的没有道德观念。

孩子的学业让给老师，品德留给我父母。

留言关闭

I am back...

2006-09-22T21:49:00.000+08:00

Yes, I am back in blogsphere again. I have so many things in mind but have nothing to write at the moment. BTW, I am here to announce that I will write again but more in Chinese than English in the future. I pretty sure my mandarin is much better than my poor and lousy English, I don't want to abuse my reader with my manglish anymore.

For those who can't read Chinese, sorry huh. I'll still try my best to write in English when times permit. Nowadays I have very limited time to blog so that I must choose the fastest way to write what I want to tell. With writings in Chinese I can express my thoughts and feelings well.

Stay tuned.

'Di Zi Gui' 弟子规

2006-06-25T22:28:00.000+08:00

Video of Xuan reciting ‘Di Zi Gui 弟子规’. I am very satisfied with his achievement thus far, in spite of few lines he may miss out sometimes.

弟子规圣人训首孝悌次谨信
泛爱众而亲仁有余力则学文

父母呼 应勿缓 父母命 行勿懒
父母教 须敬听 父母责须顺承

冬则温夏则凊晨则省昏则定
出必告反必面居有常业无变

事虽小勿擅为茍擅为子道亏
物虽小勿私藏茍私藏亲心伤

亲所好 力为具 亲所恶 谨为去
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Gray & Italic font = missing part

So long, blog sphere...

2006-06-21T23:25:00.000+08:00

After more than one and half month stayed in Malaysia, we finally back to Beijing on last Friday. Surprisingly during the wide long break in Malaysia, I totally forgot about internet and blogging! Without internet, I can finish all the house chores relaxingly on time. The most important thing is I have more time and attention to my Xuan.

Life in Malaysia is wonderful and lively. Almost everyday, we have learning and playing session in the morning and swimming session in the evening. Sometimes we go shopping at night with sister who live a block away from my apartment. I started to taught Xuan ‘Di Zhi Gui’弟子规 few weeks ago and the result is very encouraging. ‘Di Zhi Gui’ 弟子规, in English, means standards for being a good student and child. Me not so keen on teaching him ABC or 123 (Xuan can’t recognize every alphabet yet and only can count to 10 correctly), but I truly want him to recite and understand the meaning taught in ‘Di Zhi Gui’. What I think is being a good person is much important than being a clever person. I wish my Xuan become an average-fine-good man rather than an intelligent devil when he grows up. If you are interested to know about 'Di Zhi Gui', check out here for Chinese explanation and here for English.

By the way, we are soon moving back to Malaysia for good. This is the final trip for us to pack our stuffs and leave. I am glad with this sudden changes and I have lots of plan in my head now. The plan and list of things to do after we have moves back to Malaysia:

Get mechanic to service the aircon, it has been more than 5 years never service already.
Undergo Laser Eye Surgery to correct my short sighted.
Rearrange and convert the front room to Xuan’s bedroom. Buy a new bed and install a new aircon unit in the room.
Enroll Xuan to Amitabha Buddhist Society Pure Land Learning Center nearby my house. Intend to send him there for a year, and then enroll to normal kindergarten when he is 5 years old.
Ok, this is the happy thing; We will try for second baby by next year, after Xuan reaches three.

I am now announcing my semi-retiring from blog sphere, I will still blog but only once in a blue moon. Somehow, you'll see me hop in your site when my mood struck. Thanks for being with me for the past one year of my blogging journey.

Blog Break...

2006-04-25T23:53:00.000+08:00

Dear All, I just received instruction from my commander that to announce Blog Break woh... as we are going back KL tomorrow morning flight MH371 :)

Break for how long ah?

eeeerrrrrrr hope able to stay back KL for one month there (again depend on Lee assignment loh...打工仔) BUT also hope to find time to update something here from time to time too...(if someone using 'carefree' WIFI near our apartment kekekeke OR else need to get some bandwidth from my sister who is staying next block kekekeke BUT when go there to chat only lah)

*posted by Leecs...25th April 2006...2 more minutes to go then will be today going home liao...*

轩言轩语 IV

2006-04-24T00:29:00.000+08:00

Below conversation been long overdue, but I want to jot it down before I announce my blog break. Yes, we will be back to Malaysia again on Wednesday morning.

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爹地给他下了一跳！(Daddy got frighten by Xuan!)
Xuan: “你看！嘘嘘red color！” (You see! red color urine!)
I wonder is Xuan color blind or what, because he can’t recognize color correctly no matter who many times we teach and show it to him. After some time later, I am very sure he is not color blind. *phew*

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Xuan will inform us if there is any SMS coming. One day when my computer switched to save mode, Xuan accidentally touched the mouse and the screen reappear, he thought that is also a SMS coming and call out loud:
“Mummy, SMS 来了！” (SMS coming!)

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Xuan looks into our eyes, and saw his own reflection in our eyeball and he connected it to the mirror and was so excited. He keeps saying: “有mirror! 有mirror!” (got mirror!)

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Daddy farts loudly when playing with Xuan.
Xuan: “Daddy uhmm-uhmm 出来了！” (Daddy poo-poo came out already!)
He then walks far far away from Daddy.

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Xuan went to lie down on the sofa, and said:
“躺这边，我很舒服。” (lie here, I feel very comfortable.)

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Jump up onto his bed and pretended to swim, at the same time saying: “Swimming, swimming, 游泳, 游泳。”

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Xuan pointed to the blue sky...
“妈咪，今天好天气！” (Mummy, today good weather!)
and sometimes saying:
“今天没有大大风。” (Today no strong wind)

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What goes around, come around. Daddy got this from Xuan:
“爹地手冷冷，走开不要动轩轩。” (Daddy’s hand very cold, go away don’t touch Xuan-Xuan.)

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Shows his love to Daddy and Mummy…
We gave him ice-cream, and he offers us a bite.
“爹地/妈咪吃一下，很好吃。” (Daddy/Mummy eat some, very yummy.)

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He saw Daddy bring out big mug of hot coffee, Xuan was telling Daddy:
“Daddy coffee 烧烧，不要喝先。” (Daddy the coffee is hot, don’t drink first.)

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When we know he is lying,
Mummy: “你骗妈咪，讲骗话会怎样？” (You lie to Mummy, how if you lying?)
Xuan: “鼻子长长开flower。” (Nose become long-long and grows flower.)
(We told him if he lying, his nose will be like Pinnochio’s become long-long and grows flower.)

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Mummy: “噢，air-con 来了。” (oh, air-con come already)
Xuan: “Air-con 有脚，没有脚怎样来。” (Air-con got legs, no legs how to come.)

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Below are some other phrases from Xuan.

“轩轩生气了。妈咪弄轩轩生气了。” (Xuan-Xuan angry already, Mummy makes Xuan-Xuan angry already.)

“我放屁很大声。” (I fart very loud)

“妈咪我喜欢这个Bob-Builder，我要Bob-Builder抱抱。” (Mummy I like this Bod-Builder, I want Bod-Builder hug hug.)

“妈咪，我好像肚子饿。” (Mummy, I am like hungry.)

“爹地来，来陪轩轩看。”(He wants Daddy accompany to watch DVD.)

“妈咪你看，有reflection! ” (Mummy you see, got reflection!)
Pointing at the reflection of the ceiling light on the platinized water tab)

Ghost Story

2006-04-21T17:13:00.000+08:00

She doesn’t believe in ghost, but I do. There are spirits aka ghost everywhere, and if you don’t step on their tail, they won’t disturb you. 人不犯鬼，鬼不犯人。Nicole Kidman’s movie ‘The Others’, is the best way to explain how IT live with us in the same world but different dimension.

Today I am going to tell u a real story, a real ghost story. I witnessed what actually had happened to my Sis#4 and her friends.

Many years ago, Sis#4 had to move and stay in Malacca town to pursue her Form Six study. She studied in Gajah Berang High School, which is located next to Sek Kia Eng on the right side. On the other side of Sek Kia Eng, there is an old shop lot, but u can still see the old sign of "Hotel" 客栈 hanging on top of the entrance. Sis#4 and her friends (3 or 4 girl friends) rented a room in that shop lot, because it is nearer to their school. I can’t remember how long they had been staying there, but I do remember they moved out in a lightning speed. Why? Because that shop is haunted!

One day, they woke up and found fresh bloodstain all over their pyjamas, bed sheet, blanket, floor, toilet, and even on their soap! Knock your head and don’t tell me that it was mosquitoes’ blood. If you think so, then that mosquito would have been flying and vomiting blood at the same time, and it must be a giant mosquito as there were bloods everywhere. They felt something wrong but they ignored it, but this happen again on the next day and the following days. I couldn’t really remember whether they call their landlord to clarify about this weird thing or not.

One night, before Sis went to sleep, she set her alarm to 6AM. Her alarm rang, she woke up and checked on the clock and it pointed at 6am sharp. She always bath and wash her hair early in the morning, so was that day. After coming out from the toilet, she woke her roommate up for changing. Her roommate told her that it was only 3am in the morning and asked why did she wake up so early! Sis was shocked and quickly checked her clock again and now, the clock was pointing at 3! Gosh! My Sis went back to sleep, but she could hear people walking up and down on the staircase loudly. The sound was very loud and annoying, so she went to inspect what was going on. Once she opened her room door, the sound stopped. It was so dark outside, with no light and human sign. She was scared and went back to her bed quickly. Then, she heard someone flipping the newspaper, angrily. This time, she dared not to check on it but closed her eyes and forced herself to sleep. The next day, she told her housemate about what happened last night. She was shocked to know that most of them had experienced the same thing, like newspaper flipping angrily, sound from the staircase and so on.

They were all alarmed by then, but still didn’t show sign of moving out yet. Later on, one by one, they fall sick. No medicine could cure the weird sickness. One of sis’s friend’s face started to swollen on one side for unknown reason. The doctor couldn’t find any reason to explain the cause. So, the girl’s parent went to ask help from a God, in one of the famous temples, the God told them, that the fierce female ghost who was rapped and murdered, at a young age in the ancient hotel slapped her. Her spirit couldn’t rest in peace and she was searching for “replacement”. The God advised all of them to move out as soon as possible, and the time must be at 12PM. It is the only time when the sun is right at the top of our head and there will be no shadow of us. I guess ghosts can hide under our shadow and follow us everywhere. My dad and I went to help my sis to move out on that day. I didn’t feel like entering the shop in the beginning, but was afraid to wait outside the shop too. Finally, I went in. The shop was dark and gloomy; I wonder why my sis wanted to rent it in the beginning. I walked pass the staircase and went to the middle part of the shop. There was a skylight and a spiral staircase leading up to a room. Curiosity led me up the spiral staircase and I saw a closed door pasted with old and a bit torn “Fu” 符. Sensing something was wrong; I quickly walked down the staircase and got out the shop.

The story wasn’t finished yet. After they moved out and reached home, they had to cut and burn the cloths and everything that had bloodstain on it. I helped my sis with that. After that, they recovered from their unknown sickness.

The end.

BTW, I also have an invisible genie behind my screen to correct my writing. *grins*

Update on 2253:

Almost forgot to mention about what had happened at my Bro#2’s company last year, very interesting! Please read here and here. And now, how do you explain about that?

“Golden City” ?? 满城尽带黄金甲

2006-04-18T23:55:00.000+08:00

Sand storm hit Beijing on Monday morning. Covered News please refer to following links:

English version read here and here
Chinese version read here

Early Monday morning, Xuan was up and requested for milk. When I stepped out from my bedroom, all I could see was yellowish-light from outside the window illuminated my whole interior. Hence, I went on to peep down and I was shocked to see that everything, floors, roofs, and cars were covered with yellowish sand! And the sky was so yellow too!

It was horrible!

"Golden Rain" is pouring... 老天竟下起“黄金雨”来了！

Above left: People busy washing their car.
Above right: The petrol station located opposite my apartment, roof and ground are covered with “golden sand”.

是太阳，还是月亮？
黄尘滚滚，太阳高挂但一筹莫展。
(that is a sun or a moon?)

Above photos are taken from our apartment.

出游

2006-04-16T00:15:00.000+08:00

树荫底，桃花下，长城墙边一泡尿。
“前必有古人，后继有来者。” ~ 土阿妈

漫漫长路，伴我行。

听见了吗？风的呼啸...

一颦一笑，年少情愁；春去春回，花香依旧。

回眸一笑，千愁万绪顿成空。

肃静！神兽把关，实不得轻妄矣。

心随境转

相由心生

梨涡浅笑，胜过千古伟迹。

雍和宫留影

客人来 Visitors

2006-04-13T00:41:00.000+08:00

有朋自远方来；闹了几天，乐了几天，也累了几天。家，是热闹到了极点，今天终于回归平静。我可爱的宝贝好像突然长大了许多，非常健谈好客。（其实是名副其实的地头虫呢！别人来家做客当然欢迎咯，但如果是他去造访人家就另当别论了。）

尽地主之带朋友去游览了一些名胜古迹，也尝了许多道地的佳肴美食。也终于尝试着独自带宝贝出门；当然是和朋友一起啦，老公要做工赚钱嘛！轩轩很乖，真得很乖！爹地不在身旁他特别乖。很开心我以后何以独自带他出门了，但机会不多因自安不好。

We have friends from Jakarta visited from last Saturday, they left this morning. My house environment suddenly became so lively and happening. Xuan was very kind towards our guest (Always generous in his own territory).

We visited few tourism and historical places together, and tasted a lot of delicious and famous local food. On Tuesday, I brought Xuan visited few places with friends, all alone without daddy present. Xuan always well behave when daddy not around. I can bring him travel alone now, but as for safety wise it wouldn’t allow us to do it often.

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Last night, when our friend was busy packing her stuffs, Xuan was in her room trying to ‘help out’. I heard the noise from the room so I quickly went in to stop Xuan from disturbing, at the same time I was talking to friend.

Mummy: “Xuan go out, 不要 kacau auntie!” (Do not disturb auntie)
*Xuan quickly run out from the room while I still talking to friend. Then I heard him told his daddy－*
Xuan: “Mummy 在里面 kacau auntie.” O_o||| (Mummy are in the room disturbing auntie)

Later, when he was on his potty doing ‘big business’, me again went into friend’s room to chat with her. Xuan calling aloud from our room－

“Mummy 来!”
*Daddy quickly attend to him, but he continue saying－*
“Mummy 快出来，不要去 kacau auntie!” >_<

*揸到!*

春晓

2006-04-07T13:39:00.000+08:00

孟浩然的春晓，是众多唐诗中较多人知道的一首。小时候听见兄姐们把它念成了另一首诗，很搞笑的诗。谁改的我并不知道，但这人也太有才华了吧。

原作：
春眠不觉晓，
处处闻啼鸟。
夜来风雨声，
花落知多少。

演变：
夏天不洗澡，
处处蚊子咬。
夜来巴掌声，
不知死多少。

我将这一首诗献给这个男孩。已经不是第一次dedicate post 给他啰，只因他最近在某些事上不是很顺利。干嘛点这首诗给他？因为我这儿现在是春天，他那儿常年都像夏天。再说，他和蚊子很有缘。

来，笑一笑。

Memory 记忆

2006-04-06T14:45:00.000+08:00

Just now when I bathe Xuan, after washed hair I found out the body bath already finished. So I took out the new bottle to replace with the empty one, and then continue to bathe him.

Xuan: “妈咪拿过新的。” (Mummy took new one)
Mummy: “是咯，那个用完了。” (Yes, that one finished already)
Xuan: “这个很香！” (This one smells nice!)
Mummy: “是吗？这个很香咩？” (Is it? This smells very nice?)
Xuan: “这个KL也是有！这个一样的，KL有的！” (KL also got this! This one same with KL one! KL got!)
Mummy: O.o “噢，是咧！这个跟 KL的一样的！” (Oh, yes! This is same with KL one!)
Xuan: “White color 的 (bottle), 一样的!” (White color bottle, same one!)

Very surprise that he still can remember the body bath he use in KL. He even acknowledges how nice the body bath smell! How amazing ya!! :)

What I learnt:
Kids noticing every single little thing, and they can remember them well. From the toys they plays, the bed they sleep, the place they went, the food they ate, till the shampoo or body bath they use.
As a parent, don’t try to fool your kids, they will know! 别轻视他们！:p

There goes my heart 掏心

2006-04-05T00:55:00.000+08:00

This afternoon, while Xuan was having his milk alone in the room and I was doing washing up in the kitchen, one of the cleaner came to tell me something I inquired. Xuan heard the stranger’s voice and start crying and calling me to go in to the room, because he is scared of stranger. After the cleaner gone, I quickly go in to sooth him and told him that is Ah Yee 阿姨 came to look for mummy. In the meantime, Xuan shown me he has finished his milk. So I offer to accompany him to sleep (usually I won’t stay by his side for the nap time, he will drifted to sleep after finished his milk alone). I lay beside him and closed my eyes.

Xuan start to kiss me on my cheek, then my mouth, and cheek, mouth, cheek, mouth, keep on repeating many times. Later,

Xuan: “最后一次了。” (this is the last time)
Mummy: “Oh, ok.”
Xuan: *Muack* (kiss on my cheek hardly)
Mummy: “ok, good boy. Go to sleep fast.”
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Xuan: “妈咪要抹地了。” (mummy wants to mop floor already)
Mummy: *huh?!* “Oh, 是咯，你自己睡ok?” (Oh, yes, you sleep on you own ok?)
Xuan: *nodded his head*

Then I go out to continue my chores. When I return to the room 15mins later, Xuan was sounds asleep already.

"I Love U"

2006-04-03T11:08:00.000+08:00

Barney fever!! If you like Barney, sure you will like this. If you don't, you still will like this. :)

"I love u, u love me~~"

回到校园 — 爹(Tag)你爆秘密(meme)

2006-03-31T01:31:00.000+08:00

这家伙吃饱没事做要来玩踢爆秘密嚄, 谁叫她面子…………上所有器官都比我大，给脸她陪她玩！我也会写得很长，希望她别后悔咯！:pdpdpd

在多少间学校读过书?
1. 没上过幼稚园 — 太幼稚了，谁要上？（呵呵… 对，我就是抄袭。吹咩？）
也不知为什么老妈不给我上幼稚园，也许是因为我其它八个兄姐们都没上吧。有时想一想我是老幺咧，怎么都该给我试一试嘛！再说，如果我有上过幼稚园，说不定我现在会有所成就呢！像她老爸说得一样，“如果当年有上幼稚园的话，后来在小学和中学应该可以发挥得更好，因为在幼稚园打好基础非常重要。”

2. 小学 — 培智(国民型)华文小学
离家很近，走的是乡间小路所以不知有多远。学校建在一个相当隐秘的乡村里，所谓的大路也只能供一辆车通行而已。母亲带我走路上学两天后，就跟着姐姐和小哥哥走路去了。走在乡间小路上的确趣事多，但这儿只谈校园趣事，别的不提。

一年级到六年级的成绩就像我的人一样，普普通通。从依据名次排班的甲乙丙丁，到不依名次排班的红黄蓝青，我总是被按在甲班与红班里。朋友很多，知己很少。曾当过巡查员、图书管理员、学会里的舞蹈员和合唱团员。特别喜欢舞蹈，可以废寝忘食的练习。学校里的赛事，年年书法第一、图画第二，其它比赛没有份。代表过学校参加珲春公开赛，得了亚军但没见到奖品，也许寄错学校了。没旷过课、没犯过大规（小的不算）。六年级那年，学校来了一位大家都认为他变态的高老师。这位老师下面再谈。
当时的愿望是当书法家，没人反对也没人支持（也许人人都认为我还小不懂事，愿望是什么会搞不清吧）。

3. 中学 — 普罗士邦(国民型)华文中学
念这所学校原因也和小学一样，因为离家很近，而且哥哥姐姐们都在那儿念。同样也是走路上学，但走的不再是乡间小路，而是一条勉强可以让两辆车通行的柏油路。预备班到高中五，共念了六年。

预备班，乙班。不知天高地厚，还曾经旷课到公园玩乐。迷迷糊糊就一年过去了。

初中一到初中三，甲班。参加了很多学会，非常活跃。不爱读书，临时抱佛脚的时候是多得数不清。初级文凭考试(SRP) 成绩平平，有甲、有乙、有丙、没有丁，多亏烧得香多佛祖保佑。忘了在哪一年，学校因课室不够，我班被逼借用邻校的课室上课。借的只是课室，所以科学室、厕所、食堂都得用回本校的。去一趟厕所就花了整十分钟，去多几趟时间就过了！乐也。但很白痴的是，本校和防火演习我们也得参加！心想，本来都已经离‘火场’很远了，干嘛还要跑回去集合呢？！找死不成？

高中一，理二。参加的学会更多了，而且也成为学会的工作人员。学会的开会越来越多，责任越来越重。在华文学会我参与学会年刊“燕讯”制作，写稿、抄写一般的工作。在童子军历成为‘大姐大’，搞集训、搞露营。学校又因为课室不够，我们又成了流动班（幸运？）。就是说哪儿有空课室就到哪儿去，基本上都是在化学室上课。有一次，我因开会误了点上课，进教室时被老师抓个正着。那老师正是校长，而我老爸竟是学校的董事长！结果，校长向我老爸打小报告，那天老爸铁着一张脸对我说了一番‘肺腑之言’，意思就是要我专心读书。我最听老爸的话，所以痛定思痛，决心痛改前非，辞掉了部分学会的工作。

高中二，理二。本可以再次成为巡查员的，但又是因为校长，说什么我参加太多课外活动了，资格被取消。边玩边学习的一年，有欢笑有泪水，朋友之间感情开始巩固了。高级教育文凭(SPM) 的成绩又是平平，有甲、有乙、有丙、也有丁（满汉全席）。

4. 之后 — 马来西亚艺术学院
开始我要选择读戏剧组的，但老爸不赞成，将就下选了与老爸有点关系的室内设计（老爸是巴布建筑师）。三年的课程却因事故我念了三年半。学业一帆风顺，成绩如鱼得水。还是一样朋友很多，知己很少。

我是书虫还是临时抱佛脚？
上面说过了，大多时候都是临时抱佛脚。其实我也很爱读书，要不然不会小学中学都当图书管理员。当管理员可以借很多书，也可以借很多参考书，但我爱读散文多过参考书。

我是老师的眼中刺，还是老师的掌上珠?
我啊？印象中，差不多所有教过我的美术老师，和中学时的华文老师都喜欢我吧。还有一些学会里的老师也蛮疼我咯。还有我在艺术学院时每个班主任都很喜欢我。还有英文老师（天！忘了他名字！）。咦，这么多人喜欢，人见人爱吗？呵呵… 才怪。

我在学校犯过最大的条规?
除了逃过课和考试出过猫（那一次差不多全班一起出猫）以外，没犯过大规。小的不算所以免谈。

最喜欢的三项科目 –
中文 — 我的中文成绩都不错，我的作文就像天马行空(以前可以，现在不行咯），除了写论文。

美术 — 不用背书，轻轻松松写写画画一向是我最喜欢的。呃，我画风景还可以，可别叫我画漫画或动物，会死给你看。

化学 — 喜欢做试验，把化学药物掺来掺去期待着它的变化。

影响我至深的三位老师–
1．我老爸 — 虽然老爸不是教师，但却是我一生中教会我最多事情的‘老师’。怎么与人相处，怎么待人处事，也凭着他不屈不挠的精神克服了所有障碍。老爸学历也不过小学三年级，却自己学会画蓝图、写标书，建立起自己的建筑王国，完成了庞大的建筑工程。

2．高老师 — 评我逐渐衰退的记忆，我是怎么都想不起他的全名来了。高老师是我六年级的级任兼华文老师，整天逼我们抄唐诗、背唐诗，背不到就鞭手板，错一个字就鞭一下（我背书一向很差，跟着家伙有得比，所以已数不清被鞭了多少次）。当时我们全班都认为他变态，受的皮肉之痛和精神虐待真是苦不堪言，最后搞到学生上校长处投诉他变态的教学法。话虽如此，但当时好多首唐诗真的能背得滚瓜烂熟。唉… 现在都还给了高老师，已经忘得七七八八了。无论如何，还是要多谢高老师当年对唐诗的那份热忱，甘心被学生怨骂也坚持要我们学唐诗。也因那时起，我也开始恋上华文了。真想对高老师说声“对不起”和“谢谢你”，可惜毕业后再没有高老师的消息了。

3．王康寿老师 — 中学时的华文老师，他为教育而努力的毅力感动我。他用那几乎近盲的双眼，努力的、用心的教育着我们。上他的课没有压力。古文、文言文及诗歌，他都能用轻松易解的方式令我们理解。就算他双眼已见不到远处学生的动静，我们也会正襟危坐，也不许任何人干扰王老师的课。我很尊敬他，也很佩服他。

终于完成使命，发现我没谈到什么关于恋爱的事吗？对，我就是避了不谈。说明是回到校园嘛，干嘛谈情说爱呢？:P 好，现在要交棒子了。放心，我不踢人但是我爹(tag)人，爹到你迷迷(meme)糊糊什么都爆出来。我会选那些英文和华文都很好的人来爹，因为想知道为什么他们这么棒。三个天才是：

1．青苹果 (Greenapple) — 土阿妈踢你一脚，我爹你一下。怎样？还是写吧。
2．大地音符(Earthtone)— 你的校园故事一定和你大姐的不同吧。期待！
3．本土女神(Domestic Goddess)— 知道你最近很忙，但忙里偷闲时不妨写一写吧。

Elixir

2006-03-25T17:39:00.000+08:00

This woman keeps on blogging about elixir. Hmm… Interesting. Ok let me tell u what is my elixir.

Xuan: “我喜欢妈咪。” (I like Mummy.)
Mummy: “再讲！” (Say again!)
Xuan: “我喜欢妈咪。” (I like Mummy.)

Whenever Xuan says “I like mummy”, I am sure to become happy and energetic again, regardless how tired, or sad, or blue, or dispirited, or unhappy I am. Doesn’t my elixir sound funny to u? But, believe me, this is what keeps me up and running for a whole day, without the help of any supplements.

One day, when Xuan grows older and older, he may tend to be too shy to tell me how he likes me or loves me. By that time, I guess the supplements have to take part to keeps me going. :p

Do u think this topic is quite interesting to blog about? Then, go and write what is your elixir.

Dish of the Lazy Day - Steam Spicy Black Bean Ribs

2006-03-24T11:05:00.000+08:00

This dish is extremely easy to prepare for a ~~lazy~~ busy day, what you need are only the LEE KUM KEE spicy black bean sauce + pork ribs + garlic. Simply yummy.

If you are interested, get the recipe from here.

春分

2006-03-22T23:22:00.000+08:00

自来京后，深居简出。邻居寥寥无几，朋友更是屈指可数。图相约一聚，也嫌麻烦。时间不便、交通不便、地点不便。哎… 真垴人，不见也罢。窗，成了我和自然界接触的唯一管道。望窗，已成了习惯。

窗外，没有迷人的景色，但夕阳的魅力确实令人陶醉。漫长的冬季，走了。柔和的春风吹起，大地如从睡梦中更醒一般，绿了。

淡淡的绿，象征着生命的延续。盛开的花儿，风中飘逸柔情似水。

冬去春来，柳暗花明。

春分，是反映四季变化的节气之一。

Lego

2006-03-22T10:35:00.000+08:00

Since hubby bought a set of LEGO for Xuan, he was asking us to build many things for him like bus stop, airport, tunnel etc.

“Mummy build tunnel for Xuan-Xuan.”
Oh, my! Daddy is the tunnel expert not mummy. But, I tried my best to build it for him. I carefully build the columns, the walls and finally trying to cover up the roof. While I was covering the roof, suddenly *plahhhh……*, as expected the tunnel collapsed before it’s completed. Xuan exclaim excitedly “Yoohhh…. mummy’s tunnel collapsed already!” and laugh happily.

“Mummy build petrol station with car washes one for me.”
Hah no problem, I am quite expert in building a petrol station. While I making the petrol station, Xuan was beside me and keep disturbing (he claimed that he was helping me wor). Again *plahhhh….*, Xuan demolished my halfway-to-completion petrol station by throwing the plastic Lego container towards it. I stared at him, he grins and say “Mummy angry…” then kiss on my lips and walk away like nothing happen. *sigh*

“Mummy I want fountain, make fountain for Xuan-Xuan.”
Ok fine, fountain is the simplest one so I fixed it for him. Finally, it's done and I have a moment of peace. But, he gets bore with the fountain very soon. As u can guess, he demolished the fountain and asked for something new.

This time, guess what he wants?

“Mummy, make for me fireworks!” *fainted*

Below are Xuan’s masterpieces.

According to Xuan, left is car park and right is a house.

Updated:
Found more photos of Xuan’s creation, but I don’t know what it is.

The Sound of 'my Angle'

2006-03-20T14:50:00.000+08:00

Xuan sang his favourite "female deer" song while drinking milk this morning.
"Female deer" is the unique name Xuan given to this movie and its song "Do Re Mi".

A Lonely Day...

2006-03-19T00:00:00.000+08:00

I feel lonely, very lonely...

Therefore, I try to keep myself busy...

Mummy says the best way to ease my loneliness is for me to makes friends.
Do u want some biscuit?

Wanna take a ride on my Jeep?

Ouch... I am getting tire...

Its time to bed, let gets change.

Good night, sweet dream...

母爱的真相

2006-03-17T15:54:00.000+08:00

例子（一）
之前我在这里提到“国光帮帮忙”这个节目，主持人孙鹏的前妻狄莺上节目的一段有趣对话。这对因误会而冲动离婚后却藕断丝连的怨偶，在节目中为了爱不爱儿子的话题而起了小争执。

狄莺：“他爱儿子多过爱我！”
孙鹏：“你也不是一样很爱儿子吗？”
狄莺：“我是因为很爱你才那么爱我们的儿子！”

例子（二）
而最近也正追看着这一出韩剧‘巴黎恋人 ’，故事是以一段三角恋为主题。但我今天不是要和你谈这累人的三角恋，而是要谈着三角恋里两位男主角的母亲。剧情简述：

一个情窦初开的富家少女恋上的不该恋的男人，而珠胎暗结。遭受反对的婚姻，男人为爱牺牲生命。女孩生下小孩后，父亲以自己有权/钱有势，偷天换日把外孙弄成儿子。从此，女孩当了‘姐姐’。之后女孩嫁给一个她根本不爱的人，再生了一个儿子。一个是爱情结晶（弟弟），另一个是政治婚姻的产品（儿子）。所以这女孩始终疼爱‘弟弟’多于儿子。对儿子更是不理不睬。

看到这里我心里实在不明白为什么这女人这么狠心，两个都是亲生的，为什么却只是疼爱‘弟弟’？但后来听了女孩的一番话，顿时明白过来了。

女孩说：“当初被逼嫁给不爱的男人，生下的孩子怎也不想多看他一眼，因见到他就像见到他爸爸。”

她说的一点也没错，就比个例子说；一个女孩不幸被奸成孕，然后生下了的孩子，怎么都不可能可以和这孩子一起生活。见到孩子总让女孩回忆起那可怕的遭遇。不是吗？

我的领悟、我的结论。
以上两个不同的例子，却让我领悟了这道理。

“女人给孩子的爱，在无形中是相等于给丈夫/男人的爱。”
“很爱孩子的母亲，绝不可能恨她的男人。”
“但如果她很爱孩子，却恨自己的男人，那是因为爱得太深了，反而变恨。”

嘻嘻… 没错，我很爱我的孩子。

哎，但就是不晓得男人是否也一样。

更新于3月17日 2300 时：

惨，看来有很多人看不懂也猜不透到底我想表达的意思。也难怪啦，我那多年没用且生锈发烂了的文笔，确实令人摇头。:p 不好意思，我在这里再简单的解释一下。

例子（一）
狄莺是因为很爱她老公，之所以也很爱孩子。
典型的‘因爱老公而爱孩子’。

例子（二）
女孩的大儿子/弟弟（与死去了的恋人所生的儿子）：
女孩是因为很爱她男人，之所以也很爱他们的孩子，就算‘孩子’已被逼变成‘弟弟’。
典型的‘因爱她男人而爱孩子’。

女孩的二儿子（与政治婚姻的丈夫所生的儿子）：
女孩是因为不爱她的丈夫，之所以也不爱那段婚姻所出的孩子。
典型的‘因不爱老公而不爱孩子’。

母爱的真相之总结论：
女人爱孩子 = 女人爱丈夫/男人
女人不爱孩子 = 女人不爱丈夫/男人
女人如果曾经爱过她丈夫/男人，她却会一直爱着他们的孩子。

如果你还是不明白我这文章想表达的意思，那就算了吧。但我会面壁思过，检讨检讨。

父爱 vs 夫爱

2006-03-14T16:49:00.000+08:00

人物：
阿玲 = 本人
老爸 = 阿玲的老爸
老公 = 阿玲的老公
阿轩 = 阿玲的儿子

三代反映着一个道理。爱人的爱，永远敌不过伟大的父爱。

当天气冷时…

小时候。
老爸：“阿玲，你冷吗？来给爸抱一抱。”
说着就抱起阿玲，用温暖的双手猛擦阿玲冰冷的双手。

现在。
阿玲：“哇，好冷啊！老公，来借一借你的手。”
老公：“哇唠！你的手很冷，快拿开！别动我！”
老公：“阿轩，为什么手这么冷？来，爹地抱抱。”

当一起去逛商场时…

小时候。
老爸：“阿玲，你要这个吗？好，爸卖给你。”

现在。
阿玲：“呃，你看这个很美叻~~”
老公：“要来做末？不要买啦没用的，集尘。”
老公：“阿轩，你要什么？爹地卖给你。”

当有好吃的东西时…

小时候。
老爸：“阿玲，雪糕好吃吗？再多吃点。”

现在。
阿玲：“嗯，很好吃！还要~~”
老公：“再吃啦？！肥死你。轩你看，肥婆妈咪，死吃死吃~~”
老公：“阿轩来，爹地给你吃雪糕。慢慢吃，吃完爹地再买过。”

故事的背后让我明白一件事，难怪那么多年轻女孩情愿嫁给老头子。

Another Snow Encounter

2006-03-11T17:49:00.000+08:00

I like what Xuan said "那个 bus-bus 阻街。" (The bus blocked the traffic) :D

Weird weather here, snowing in the mid March 三月飞霜. Related post please click here.

Updated 12 March:

Yeah, what hubby commented on my comment page is true. Xuan was half way saying "下雪.......很美" (snows... beautiful) when I stopped recording.

Ah-ha... 童真

2006-03-11T17:01:00.000+08:00

"Wow... that's my dream car!!"

轩言轩语 III – 成语

2006-03-07T23:55:00.000+08:00

指着散乱满地的玩具，轩轩叫道：“你看！做么玩具乱丢满地？乱七八糟。”

刚洗完澡，轩轩指着湿漉漉的身体说：“你看！满身大汗。”

两岁零两个月，轩轩学会了两句成语。

My Mom

2006-03-07T23:38:00.000+08:00

Forgive me being inactive for the past few days. 3 days ago I received SMS from Sis#6 and Bro#2. In their messages they said,

“Sis, Mom has fallen on the floor late night when getting off the chair 3 days ago. Now chest pain due to muscle injured. Condition OK. Give her a call or back Tampin if possible.”

I was so shock and worry, immediately I call Mom to check on her condition. In the phone she sounded very soft and tired. She can’t raise her hands or do anything which requires big motion at the moment.

I called Sis#6, she said now Mom don’t have maid as the previous maid service period has expired and already gone back to Indonesia. Therefore, we are planning to get a new maid for Mom. After that, I called Sis#5. Her husband (BIL#5) is a doctor, a specialist indeed. Mainly is to check on Mom’s condition because Mom was complaining the pains never subside even after the medicine. Sis#5 told me that BIL suspected Mom might have fracture over her chest bone according to the way how Mom described her condition over the phone. Sis#5 also warned me not to tell Mom about this cause she will be scare and worry. I was double shock and worry when I heard this.

The next day late at night I online chatted with Bro#1 using Skype. (Bro#1 are staying in Tampin too but not in the same house with Mom.) Bro#1 told me that Mom condition is under control now. The day before she was being her own doctor, because she took only once the pain killer that doctor has actually instructed to take 3 times per day! That’s why her pains still very bad after 3 days on medication. Wahlao-eh! This Mom, really huh, makes us worried like hell.

Today I phoned Mom again. She sounded much better, even can jokes with me. I am relieved. Mom turns 73 by end of this month, 31 March. My only wish to her is to stay healthy and happy forever.

Dearest Mom,
Get well soon. I love u.

轩言轩语 II

2006-03-02T16:26:00.000+08:00

爹地去公干的第一天。

大清早，轩轩爬上我的床找不着爹地大发脾气，又是踢脚又是大闹。
轩轩：“爹地！要爹地！要爹地！”
妈咪：“爹地去做工了嘛！昨晚不是给你打电话了吗？爹地多两天才会回来。”
轩轩：“要爹地！” 砰！砰！砰！哇~~ 轩踢床大闹…
妈咪：“妈咪讲了，爹地去做工。嘿！不可以发脾气哦。”
一片寂静….
妈咪、轩轩近距离四目相对。突然，轩轩以一本正经的表情说：
“我要喝 nen-nen！”(nen-nen = 喝奶)

爹地去公干的第二天。

妈咪：“爹地去哪里？”
轩轩漫不经心的说：
“爹地去雅秀。”
“雅什么秀？”
“雅做工秀。”
“雅什么秀？”
“雅Car-car 秀。”
“雅什么秀？”
“雅Rescue Car 秀。”
“雅什么秀？”
“雅 … … … … … … … … … … 秀。”

注：北京三里屯雅秀服装市场是隶属昆泰集团的一家大型专业经营服装、百货的综合商场。

爹地去公干的第三天。（爹地今天没有回来，行程临时更改了。）

妈咪：“爹地去哪里？”
轩轩：“爹地去做工。坐Air-plane… Ooohhhhh… 去打油。”
妈咪：“？？？”

爹地明天就回来了，谢天谢地。

Blue Color Bird

2006-03-01T15:26:00.001+08:00

Just now while I was putting lotion on Xuan's leg after bathe him, his hand touched on his birdie.

Xuan: "Bird-bird."
Mummy: "是咯，为什么摸？" (Yeah loh, why touch it?)
Xuan: "不要摸，等下bird-bird飞掉！" (Cannot touch, later bird-bird fly away!)
Mummy: "哈哈... bird-bird 飞去哪里？" (HahaÂ bird-bird fly where?)
Xuan: "飞去KL。" (no more 飞去做工anymore :p) (Fly to KL)
Mummy: "吓？去KL啊？" (Huh? To KL arr?)
Xuan: "我喜欢blue color bird-bird." (I like blue color bird-bird)
Mummy: "Blue color bird-bird? Blue bird??!!Â"

Cool man!!!
ROTFLOL (I wonder why that is so many nice colors there but he chosen BLUE)

FYI, 'blue bird' when speak in dialect Hokkien = 'lan-jiao' means 'dick'. It usually use for scolding people, a fowl language.

忘记 Forgot

2006-02-28T23:28:00.000+08:00

Usually Xuan will stay with me in the kitchen while I am busy prepare for cooking. He will play with my cooking utensil throughout the entirely ‘process’. Yesterday was out of ordinary, he didn’t come into the kitchen but stays in the parlour alone.

When I was almost done, Xuan open the kitchen door peek at me, without saying a word he then close the door. After a while, he opens the door again,
“Mummy cook-cook 给daddy 吃… … Close the door… Close the door…” (mummy cooks for daddy)
He slowly closed the door again.

Few minute later, he opens the door again and shouted
“要 shh-shh! 要 shh-shh!” (want to pee!)
“Ok, ok go shh-shh.”

While peeing, he was rubbing his eye and sadly says:
“Mummy 忘记了.” (mummy forgot already)
“Huh? 什么mummy 忘记了?” (huh? mummy forgot what?)
“Mummy 忘记 Xuan-Xuan 了.” (mummy forgot Xuan-Xuan already)

Ouch! My heart suddenly felt so ‘sourly-pain’ when hearing this.

“没有啦, mummy 没有忘记 Xuan-Xuan，mummy 不会忘记 Xuan-Xuan 的!”
(No, mummy did not forget Xuan-Xuan, mummy will never forget Xuan-Xuan!)

I quickly kiss and hug him tightly.

My boy tend to be very sentimental nowadays, he will express his like and dislike by putting it into words. The best example is,

“我很喜欢 mummy.” (I likes mummy very much.)
Follow by hugging me and kiss my cheek.

What a lovely boy :)

Cute + funny

2006-02-27T15:11:00.000+08:00

Latest video of Xuan... very cute and funny. Listen carefully on what he said, especially the last sentence with that funny expression which never fail to makes me laugh :D

"Flower 美美。" (flower very beautiful)
"差点pong下去。" (nearly fall down)
"Daddy 拍 Xuan-Xuan." (daddy shooting his photo/video)
"要上去...不要跌到了。" (wanna go up... don't fall down already)
"看flower..." (see flower)
"... ... ... " (Xuan mumbling, sorry can't hear him clear :p)
"不要去摸！不要去摸！不要去摸！" (don't touch it)
"Daddy 拍 Xuan-Xuan." (daddy shooting his photo/video)
"Daddy 在哪里？" (where is daddy)
"还要吃 yogurt." (wanna eat yogurt)

hahaha.... that's my boy :)

Meme of FOUR

2006-02-23T00:14:00.000+08:00

Maria and Greenapple tagged me when I was holiday-ing in Malaysia. They tagged each other at the same time too, and both tagged me *roll eyes* hahaha… kidding, I am more than willing to do this. Thanks for remembered me. :D

4 jobs you've had in your life
*Trainee as an Interior Designer
*Illustrator cum draftsman cum Interior designer in a construction firm
*Draftsman cum Interior designer in an Interior-Architectural firm
*Interior designer in an Interior consultancy firm

4 movies you could watch over and over
*All Disney cartoons
*Hayao MIYAZAKI’s films宫崎骏
*My Japanese drama series collection
*The Sound of Music

4 TV shows you love(d) to watch
*我猜、我猜、我猜猜猜
*Ally McBeal
*Fear Factor
*CSI

4 places you've lived
*Tampin, Melaka
*Kuala Lumpur
*Jakarta, Indonesia
*Currently in Beijing, China

4 places (preferably overseas, if not, anywhere else) you've been on vacation to
*Thailand: Koh Phuket, Koh Phi Phi, Koh Samui
*Indonesia: Yogjakarta, Borobudur, Bandung, Bali
*China, Beijing: Some of the famous historical places like 故宫博物院, 北京幕田峪长城，北京动物园 etc.
*Singapore

4 places you would rather be

gee… hard to choose any, I like to travel around… as long as my family are with me.

4 of your favourite foods
*Fresh fruits
*Vegetables
*Seafood
*Junk food

4 Websites you MUST visit daily
*Snippets of Life
*Double Happiness
*All the updated blog in my blog kaki list
*Gmail.com

4 tagged
*My beloved hubby (he tagged me, now my revenge… kekeke)
*Pak Soo HK
*My brother (tag him, if u wish to kill a meme… hahaha)
*Meme killer

*phew* finally I've done my part.

I Love Cat

2006-02-20T15:09:00.000+08:00

Latest video clip of Xuan happily playing with his favourite toy cat given by Selba.

Xuan: "daddy 拍 Xuan-xuan"
Daddy: "你的 meow-meow 呢？"
Xuan: "在这里。"
Daddy: "... ... ..." (can't hear what he said :p)
Xuan: "meow-meow... "
*Xuan push the cat fall down from the sofa*
Xuan: "meow-meow 不、不、不要跟你 friend-friend liao."

Thank You

2006-02-18T23:57:00.000+08:00

Haven’t written a proper post after came back from Malaysia. Very ~~busy~~ lazy lately, no mood to do everything. Me got online but just blog hoping and trying to catch up with the post I have missed. Hoping, hoping, and hoping… one by one without leaving any comment, really sorry for that. Still have lots to go, especially for those who write everyday.

Consider this is the first post after New Year, I wish to start it with a thank you note.
*Thanks Hubby for everything u gave to us, thanks for loving us.
*Thanks my dear son Xuan for brings me lots of laughter and joys to my life.
*Thanks Dad for ‘poh bi’ (protect) us all the time especially when we taking long journey flight.
*Thanks Mum for staying healthy.
*Thanks Bro & SIL#1 for your Tupperware hamper.
*Thanks Sis #1 for everything u had done for our family, especially for staying and taking care of mum.
*Thanks Sis #2 for the beautiful sweater to Xuan.
*Thanks Sis #3 for gave Xuan Tupperware bottle and a toy car.
*Thanks Sis #4 for rushing back from far just because wanted to meet us.
*Thanks Sis & BIL#5 for passing lots of nice clothes, shoes for Xuan, and the medicine for my painful fingers.
*Thanks Sis & BIL#6 for helping us to clean our house, and bought Xuan a nice jumper.
*Thanks Bro #2 for still remember to leave an Angpow for Xuan even though we couldn’t meet.
*Thanks all my nieces and nephews for playing and entertaining Xuan when we were in Tampin.
*Thanks FIL for bought Xuan variety selection of his favorite yogurt.
*Thanks MIL for cooked us delicious meal when we were in Bentong for the whole CNY, and thanks for the toys for Xuan.
*Thanks BIL-W for playing and entertaining Xuan.
*Thanks SIL-V for the CDs and sleigh bell for Xuan.
*Thanks Maria for the Wiggles DVD for Xuan.
*Thanks Egghead for the toy truck to Xuan.
*Thanks sweet Milly for the beautifully-wrapped present for Xuan.
*Thanks Greenapple and Maria for tagged me the Lucky FOUR meme, ok its coming up next.
*Thanks fellow bloggers who attended the Kepong Blogger Gathering.
*Thanks everyone who left comment and wishes in my blog.

And last, Thank you, for reading my blog.

Updated on 20 Feb, 2006:
*Thanks Selba the cute toy cat for Xuan.
*Thanks Chee Sum for brought back the toy cat from Jakarta which given by selba to Xuan.
*Thanks Bro#1 for fecth us from KLIA when we return from Beijing.
*Thanks Jason for no reason. (he wants me to thank him wor...)

Happy, Cheerful Theme

2006-02-14T10:03:00.000+08:00

Simply feel happy, not because of today is Valentine day. I am happy because of my new theme, I like it very much. Thanks to Maria who redesigns it for me. I treat it as a special blog birthday present from her. She used her talent to touch my heart, I am speechless. Thanks her from the bottom of my heart.

Something went wrong with my new template, the video and blog link are out of way it suppose to be. Need to work it out later. Honestly that I know nothing about coding, it’s going to take me time to do it. Pardon me for any inconveniences occur when accessing my blog.

Happy Blog Birthday!!!

2006-02-12T23:23:00.000+08:00

Nothing to write at the moment, I am here just to wish my blog

Happy Blog Birthday!!!

新年快乐

2006-01-19T17:15:00.000+08:00

Wishing everyone

恭喜发财 !!!
We will be going back to Malaysia to celebrate Chinese New year on Friday 20th Jan 2006.... Will not post anymore until we are back to Beijing. For those who will attend the Kepong blogger gathering, see ya there.
Image from friend's website at Action Tintoy Studio

轩言轩语

2006-01-17T00:56:00.000+08:00

万能仙丹
唝...
轩轩：“啊，敲到头痛痛！妈咪 yang-yang ！”
妈咪：“哦好，来妈咪 yang-yang。还有痛吗？”
轩轩：“没有痛了，妈咪 yang-yang 了。”

砰...
轩轩：“哎呀，跌倒痛痛！妈咪 yang-yang。”
妈咪：“噢，yang-yang。还有痛吗？”
轩轩：“没有痛了，妈咪 yang-yang 了。”

童言
轩目前的模仿与说话能力：

“你看！满地，满地！Xuan-xuan naughty！”
“你看！Ball-ball 去哪里？Ball-ball 去 kitchen。”
“不要吵，baby ah-ngau。” (baby sleeping)
“Cat-cat 在哪里？yee... 没有。这里？没有。这里？也没有。”
“乱丢，乱丢。妈咪 piak-piak。”
“乱丢乱丢！不要给你了，要给弟弟了。”
“妈咪你看！吓倒 moon！” （被 moon 吓倒）
“Good boy 没有哭哭。Good boy 没有抱抱。... ... ... 妈咪抱抱！抱抱！！”

Watch out !! Snow ball...

2006-01-14T01:23:00.000+08:00

Xuan was very happy to play with the snow.

丢, 丢, 丢!

It’s snowing!!!

2006-01-12T23:32:00.000+08:00

I am so happy! Yes, very happy.

Its snowing again in Beijing today. Not heavy, but it snowed long enough to cause the field at our apartment covered with a layer of snow. After a quick lunch, we brought Xuan to the field to touch and play the snow. Yes, this is not the first snowing but this is the first time we touch the snow.

First snowing happened during midnight when nobody would step out of their houses just to catch some joys of snow during middle of the night. Second snowing fall on the day when I and Xuan were sick, sick peoples won’t play on snowy day. So now the third snowing and we got the chance to touch and play it now.

I wish to share our joys and happiness with everyone who visits my blog, with a few photos we taken when we were at the field. We took some close up photos of the snowflakes. Can u see the shape? It’s so beautiful.

Enjoy.

Getting to know more about you... meme

2006-01-11T00:11:00.000+08:00

Ok, I got tagged again by this pretty lady and this multi-tasking woman again. I better do my homework before I pack and go home to celebrate CNY. So, here we go.

The Rules:
Remove the blog in the top spot from the following list and bump everyone up one place. Then add your blog to the bottom spot.

1.The Life of An Independent Babe
2. My All
3. All About Zara
4. Double Happiness and My Feelings
5. Snippets of Life

Then you select five people to pass the love on to:
1. Jason Mumbles
2. Little Luke “Skywalker”
3. My Felicity Corner
4. I am a Domestic Goddess
5. Happy Family

What were you doing ten years ago?
10 years ago means 1996. I was still in collage, enjoying carefree life lor what else.

What were you doing 1 year ago?
Jan 2005? Oh, I was getting ready to move to Beijing with hubby.

Five ~~super fatty and high cholesterol~~ snacks you enjoy:
1. Potato chips
2. Jelly with fruits
3. Tofu fa
4. Ice cream
5. Fruits rojak

Five songs to which you know all the lyrics off your head right now:
1. Edelweiss
2. Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star
3. Hey Diddle Diddle
4. Ding Dong Bell
5. Eensy Weensy Spider

These are my daily sing along nursery rhymes with Xuan, still got a lot more but only can chose five. All these songs I even sing it in my dream!!

Five things you would do if you were a millionaire billionaire:
1. Travel around the world.
2. Charity.
3. Buy a land on one of the beautiful beach, design and build my own house.
4. Allocate education fund for Xuan.
5. Shopping, shopping, and shopping!

Five bad habits:
1. 洁癖. (What is this called in English huh, anybody knows?)
2. Forgetful.
3. Lazy.
4. Impatient.
5. Both love and hate to sleep.

Five things you like doing:
1. Traveling.
2. Lying on the bed and do nothing.
3. Day dreaming (dream of become a billionaire).
4. Watching cartoon, reading and playing with Xuan.
5. Shopping.

Five things you would never wear, buy, or get new again:
1. High waist loose fit Jeans.
2. Out of trend shirt/dress.
3. Low cost apartment. (Not for investment either, u may end up get stuck on the financial for buying it)
4. Earring, those must have ear holes type. Clip on one okay. (Don’t want to pierce my ear for the third times with two failed history)
5. Formal office wear.

Five favorite “toys”:
1. Notebook.
2. Xuan’s cartoon DVD.
3. Japanese drama series.
4. Kitchen utensil.
5. My blog.

That’s it. I had done my part.

Year Begin & Year End

2006-01-05T00:09:00.000+08:00

Long time never updates my blog already, cos I and Xuan were sick. Anyway, we are recovered. I noticed that is always good/bad things happen on us on the year end or beginning of a year.

Year 1994, Dec - Father had 1st stroke.
Year 2000, Jan - Father had 2nd stroke.
Year 2000, Feb – Beloved father passed away on the 5th day of CNY.
Year 2001, Nov - Got married.
Year 2003, Jan – Hubby admitted to Jakarta hospital for dengue, *updated* follow by me admitted too for dengue and typhoid in Jakarta Hospital then transfer back to KL Gleneagles Medical Center. Discharged then admitted again 2 days later for unknown illness that cause me very bad headache.
Year 2003, Dec – Gave birth to Xuan.
Year 2004, Nov – Xuan admitted for minor lung infection. A week after discharged admitted again for food poisoning.
Year 2005, Dec – I and Xuan got sick, on the last day of the year we went too see doctor (also first time visit doctor since we came Beijing).

Hmm… mixture of good and bad luck *yeah, mostly bad luck huh* :(. Anyway, now with begins of another year, I wish I could have all the good luck with me and my family. Bless us.

Happy New Year Everyone!!

Bad Day

2005-12-28T23:35:00.000+08:00

Xuan woke us up early morning before sunrise. Luckily, he only want daddy to accompany him play his car-car. So me continue... zzZZZzzZZZzz

Prepare lunch for Xuan. Washed salmon fish and seasoned then place it in the rice cooker ready to steam together when cooking rice. I was boiling chicken soup and all the sockets in the kitchen already used, move the rice cooker to second room then plug it in and press cook button. Half and hour later, it’s about Xuan’s lunch time. I go check on the rice but shocked to see NO LIGHT showing from the rice cooker. Ouch sh*t! Something went wrong. Made in China punya rice cooker, must be ‘kong’ liao. I remember I pressed the cook button already. Check again confirmed the cook button been pressed. Ok now check the plug, d*mn, loosen liao no wonder rice not cook. *@#%$&%$@#* Plug it in then start cooking, that time already passed Xuan’s lunch time liao… sigh…

After awhile, *peep peep peep….* Yee, why got error sound from washing machine? Go have a look. Sh*t! All the clothes inside still dry wan! Quickly check the water tap, its locked… *@#$%$@#%* ok, open back the tap and water rush into the washing machine. Wasted 30 min and wonder why the stupid machine doesn’t warn me earlier. Machine made in china. *roll eyes*

Late lunch cause everything late. Xuan was bath late and naptime became late too. When he drank milk he almost fall asleep, but once finished milk, he was fully awake. Asked me to carry him to sleep, have to walking about the room too. Walk walk walk, backache cannot tahan liao lay him back on the bed. He started yelling: “Mummy yang-yang… Mummy carry…” boh-lat I carry him again. Repeated few times until 4 pm, I gave up.
“U wants to sleep anot?”
“Don’t want.” *smiley face*
“Ok fine, go out.”

Xuan walk out from the room happily, mummy following behind with sour face.
Therefore, that gone my afternoon happy hour :(

BTW, someone has even worse day then me. Because of her famous forgetfulness, she now has to think of way to 补锅, she has a burned pot 黑锅 to scrape. I am waiting for her to blog about this. Kekeke…

啤酒火腿

2005-12-22T15:19:00.000+08:00

女人：“老公，等下放工去超市买 ham 回来，要大山环特级火腿。”

老公：“平时买的那个brand 是吗？知道了。”

老公买了回到家…

女人：“呃，为什么买大山环啤酒火腿叻？不是这个呖。”

老公：“这个更好的更贵叻！平时卖二十现在才卖八块多罢了。”

女人：“但是啤酒喔，阿轩可以吃咩？不知是不是有用啤酒做的呖？”

老公：“没有啦，是喂那猪喝啤酒罢了。”

女人：“>___<”

揸到。

生活点滴 Snippets of Life

小小好帮手

小趣事 ～ 山

轩言轩语

说梦

忙、盲、莽

太阳在那里？#2

晚上太阳在那里？

感动

Sungai Congkak 23/11/2007

越忙越兴奋

农历十月十四，晴

农历十月二十一，晴

农历十月初九，晴

农历十月初六，雷雨

农历十月初三，晴

农历九月二十九，晴

农历九月二十八，晴／阵雨

农历九月二十六，散布阵雨

农历九月二十四，阵雨

农历九月二十二，晴

农历九月二十一，晴

农历九月二十，晴

农历九月十九，阴／雨

回来了！

懒啊！

忙啊！

Not so merry X'mas

尘埃落定

爱心便当

问题 ～ 死掉

幼儿园

花脸猫

回来了！

轩言轩语 V

四＊＊新＊＊享受

梦该醒

烦也

算了...

无聊的游戏

心动...

举棋不定

彩虹

时间

Indian Twinkle Star

Off He Gone Again

细水长流

天意弄人 心情写照

狡猾？聪明？

Cat Face 猫脸

无厘头母子兵

槟岛之旅 ～ 相见欢

中秋节快乐

骗人

出阁 ／ 出游

洗衣？煮衣？！

淘气

品与学

I am back...

'Di Zi Gui' 弟子规

So long, blog sphere...

Blog Break...

轩言轩语 IV

Ghost Story

“Golden City” ?? 满城尽带黄金甲

出游

客人来 Visitors

春晓

Memory 记忆

There goes my heart 掏心

"I Love U"

回到校园 — 爹(Tag)你爆秘密(meme)

Elixir

Dish of the Lazy Day - Steam Spicy Black Bean Ribs

春分

Lego

The Sound of 'my Angle'

A Lonely Day...

母爱的真相

父爱 vs 夫爱

小趣事　～　山

问题～死掉

天意弄人心情写照

槟岛之旅～相见欢

出阁　／　出游

It’s snowing!!!