Not so merry X'mas

Christmas is around the corner, instead of White Christmas we have Wet Christmas this year. Everyone knows that most of the places in south Malaysia are in massive flood, that's including my home town. Fortunately, my mom's place doesn't affected. Though my mom is safe and sound at home, but I know she needs our care and love very much, especially in these gloomy day. Probably will be back to visit her this coming week end.

Why, however, Merry Christmas everyone !!

尘埃落定

终于确定了轩明年的入学资格，入读幼儿园了！

学校：阿弥陀佛净宗学会幼儿园
学费：一律免费
资格：四岁以上，父母必须与老师有一样的思想及目标。
人数：8 - 10 位，只此一班。
条件：必须连续上三年，不得半途休学。
主修：弟子规，三字经，道德与人伦。
主语：华语，六岁以后读弟子规英文版。
时间：0830 - 1230 星期一至星期五。
开学日期：明年一月

唉，很难想像这么快轩就要上幼儿园了。光阴似箭。

后注：忘了最重要的一点，小孩在那儿就读后的...
好处：修身／心养性，开发无量智慧。

爱心便当

我儿为我准备的爱心便当...


真窝心。:-)

问题 ～ 死掉

假如你有一个刚满三岁的孩子，然后他向你提出以下的问题或说出以下的话，请问你怎么处理或回答？

１.　什么是死掉？
２.　为什么死掉？
３.　死掉怎样的？
４.　我要死掉。
５.　我要弄你／他死掉。

向他解释深一点他不明白，解释浅一点他会错意。请大家来帮帮忙，真够伤脑筋的。

幼儿园

让轩参加了两天的幼儿园免费试读班，讲是试读但其实也没有真的教课。因刚好遇到假期前的最后两天，所以老师们都是给孩子们开心的玩着。本来的目的是要去了解他们的课程和教法啦，既然没得看没得比较，让轩参着玩看看他能不能够适应咯。

第一天。
一进门口轩还蛮紧张的，拼了小命紧缠着我脖子不肯下来。后来老师们见他那么怕，就叫我陪着他进里边走走玩玩认识一下新朋友。开始时他真的不肯和其他人交谈，对老师的问题也是十问十不答。老师给糖果他不要（虽然我不是很赞成小孩吃糖果，但为了要轩sporting点就叫他拿了）；给粘泥玩他也不要；给他最喜欢的星星贴纸他也不要。后来看着其他小朋友玩着玩着他才慢慢的活动了起来，开始顽皮起来了... 咳。

我看那幼儿园最吸引轩的是那散乱不全的 lego，然后就是一位很慈母型的华裔老师。当所有小朋友都在课室外的空地上和老师一起玩游戏时，轩却拉着我进课室玩 lego，选择不参与。＝____=III

第二天。
因为是上学的最后一天，所以幼儿园举办了个服装表演小派对。看见那些小朋友们个个打扮漂亮帅气的向同学朋友们炫耀着，还真希望阿轩以后能够参与。当游戏开始后，轩又显得意兴阑珊拉着我到课室里画黑板去，又选择不参与。真的非常 anti social。

两天的试读课程就酱过了，要了解的事没了解到但倒看清了这间幼儿园其实还真不是个理想的幼儿园。不会选择让轩上这间幼儿园，原因有以下几点：

１.　幼儿园设在大路旁的店屋一楼上，空间很小而且没有草场和露天空地。欠缺大自然。

２.　老师有点欠缺耐性和不够专业，常对小朋友大声呼喝表现得不够友善。为人师表最基本的条件也没有。

３.　老师让小朋友看 Power Ranger DVD！打打杀杀的戏我最反对让小朋友看，而且老师酱的做法最不可行。

４.　老师喜欢用糖果零食来引诱和奖励小朋友。不健康的方法。

５.　早上班已经爆满了，如果轩要读就只得进下午班了。下午是给这么小的孩子休息的，这也不行。

拜拜，后会无期。

注：我们试读的幼儿园是一所连锁性大型名校。

花脸猫

怎么形容我现在的情形？

轩最近有点伤风咳嗽。刚刚我塞了一大口的果条汤＋鱼圆＋红萝卜进他口，紧接着他对着我的脸打了两次喷嚏。

=___="

回来了！

趁着老公出外公干的日子，我带着轩黏着老姐去了４天3夜的金马伦高原游，昨晚终于回来了。独自带着超级捣蛋的孩子出门的感想除了累，还是累。虽然很多时候会在大庭广众前给孩子激到破口大骂仪态尽失以外，这次的出游还算累得蛮开心的。

老天爷对我们还不薄，４天里只有几小时的小雨外其它都是蓝天。拥抱大自然后的心情是笔墨难以形容的，～清静。

如果没办法移民，我希望老后会在那买地种菜过个清静的晚年。

轩言轩语 V

为什么～

轩轩：“妈咪，为什么刚才掉了一个衣服？”
妈咪：“不是一件啦，是很多件咧。呵呵...”
轩轩：“为什么很多的？”
妈咪：“因为很多衣服很重咯。”
轩轩：“为什么很重呢？”
妈咪：“因为太多衣服咯。”
轩轩：“为什么太多衣服了？”
... ... ... ...
没完没了... ... ...

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妈咪怕～

轩轩：“妈咪，又下雨了咧！”
妈咪：“哦，是呵。“
轩轩：“嘿，有闪电！我抱著你。”
妈咪：“为什么？你怕闪电？”
轩轩：“不是，是妈咪怕所以我抱著你。”

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激爆～

妈咪：“为什么你没喝完 nen-nen ？”
轩轩：“因为我 naughty 咯。”　
（一副根本不在乎的表情继续玩车。）

妈咪：“为什么刚才没有叫人？”
轩轩：“因为我不要叫吗，我不想叫吗，我不喜欢叫吗～！”

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老人精～

轩轩：“妈咪，做么会下雨的？”
妈咪：“为什么？”
轩轩：“我不知道咧。”
妈咪：“我也不知道咧。”
轩轩：（摇一摇头）“啧... ...”

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打电话～

轩轩：“Hallo，妈咪你在哪里？”
妈咪：“嗨，我在家里。轩轩你在哪里？”
轩轩：“我在电话里面。”
妈咪：“哈，在电话里面吖？在里面做什么？”
轩轩：“我在打电话给妈咪咯。”

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暴力～

我要拆掉你的眼睛，
拆掉你的头，拆掉你的手，
拆掉你的脚，拆掉你的身体，
丢进（马）桶，开水装满水，
然后 flush 掉你！
哈哈！

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暴力下雨颂～

下雨下，下雨下，
下到妈咪断掉。
下雨下，下雨下，
下到妈咪的头断掉... ...
（重复又重复）

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Xuan: "What are you doing?"
Me: "I'm writting something."
Xuan: "Something strange gon non ( going on)!" (learnt this from Pool Bear)

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四＊＊新＊＊享受

昨天是今年里最兴奋的一天！昨天我们～～
买了一间新公寓，乘了三辆新汽车（两辆 Honda City 和一辆 Toyota Innova）！！！

公寓是自己的，车子是别人的。但我还真的满开心的。

梦该醒

老公 YM 我这 网址 叫我去读，发人深思。
在这里和大家分享。

读后再思考一下我们的未来及我们孩子的前景会是什么样子的。哀哉。

梦该醒，需要另找出路了。

烦也

一个嫌太少，两个嫌太多，
又不可能有中和的一个半。

唉...　怎办？

算了...

呵呵...　之前那骂人的张贴已经删除，牢骚发完了气也消了收着它不是很好。我不想孩子以后看到会轻视那样的男人，因酱子的男人实在太多了。（希望他以后不会是其中一个）:P

冤家宜解不宜结。算了吧！

无聊的游戏

儿子现在超爱玩这游戏：

轩将他的玩具 van 放进他的裤袋后，说：
轩轩：“妈咪，你问我为什么没有 van 的？”
妈咪：“为什么没有 van 的？”
轩轩：“有有有，哪妈咪我买给你。”（从裤袋拿出玩具 van 交给我）

重复又重复...　重复又重复...　重复 N 遍也不累... 无聊咧！
@_@ ll

心动...

妈咪：“轩，你要妈咪生 baby 吗？”
轩轩：“要！我要自己冲凉自己睡觉的、要 yang-yang baby 的，不可以打 baby 的，全部车要给 baby 玩的，全部玩具要跟 baby share-share 玩的，我有 good boy 的。”

轩一口气讲完，我听后感动到快要飚眼泪了。
唉，这孩子...　也许他意识到父母决定放弃给他制造弟妹了？然后制造假象存心靠害，等你生了以后再露出他的真面目那时就后悔末及了。

唉，还是别受骗了。这小子通常都是讲一套做一套的，口是心非他属一流。了解轩和亲眼见过他怎样对待小朋友的人都会明白我说什么。千万要小心三思，别让他的这些举动把我们的决心给动摇了。

举棋不定

轩快要三岁了，再生还是不生这个问题又再缠绕着我们转了。生多一个好让轩有个玩伴，但生多一个家里的开销又会再涨一倍，是真的有点吃不消。最重要的是以治轩的性格来看，他是不会欢迎其他人来分享父母的爱。

每次读完报纸新闻后不生的念头就会很强烈，心想除非我们中大彩巨奖全家移民去外国那就不妨再生多一个。在这里当一等公民不见得有什么好，在外边当二等公民却不见得不好。这样写了不知会不会又被XX法令给拖上台宰了，但是就是不吐不快。

重质不重量，所以一个就够。老公说将来如果有本事要送他到外国读书定居，然后举家移民过去在那养老。现在说起来好像是一个梦想，但真的想把梦变成真实、变成目标、变成动力。

独生子其实也没什么不好，
小时侯父母是他的一切；
求学时朋友是他的一切；
工作后同事是他的一切；
恋爱后恋人是他的一切；
结婚后爱人是他的一切；
有小朋友后孩子是他的一切。
然而孩子大了老伴又成为他的一切；
如不幸老伴先走了，老朋友又成为他的一切。
会寂寞吗？会孤单吗？不会。他的一生没有空白过。

目前为止还没有任何理可以说服我再生宝宝，老公没意见。怀胎生子的历程曾经经历，已经拥有，就足够了。

再说孩子其实是债；来讨的也好来还的也好，总之就是越少越好。

这是一项重大的决定（至少对我们来说），所以我们需要更多的支持和肯定。

彩虹

在下了一场大雨后的傍晚，我见到了一道完美弧线的彩虹。心情顿时也变得美好起来，很多童年的回忆也突然间涌现在脑海。印象中我曾经也见过如此完美弧线的彩虹，但颜色和弧线没有今天这么的清晰。红、橙、黄、绿、蓝、靛、紫；七彩分明高挂青天。

彩虹，一路陪伴着我们归家。

时间

今早赶着出门...

妈咪：“阿轩乖，快点喝奶。妈咪没有时间了。”
轩轩：“妈咪nah，我给你时间。”
（伸手出来假装要给我）

Indian Twinkle Star

Twinkle twinkle little star
How I wonder what you are
Up above the world so high
Like a diamond in the sky
Twinkle twinkle little star
How I wonder what you are

When the blazing sun is gone
When he nothing shines upon
Then you show your little light
Twinkle twinkle all the night
Twinkle twinkle little star
How I wonder what you are

Off He Gone Again

In YM:
Hubby: "@ westin now... hmmmm not bad.."
shiaulin: "don't u ever try the 'heavenly bed' with any woman yah.. u will never reaches to the heaven but hell."
Hubby: "kekeke"

My hubby flew to Beijing again last night and will stay until Saturday. This trip he staying in the new Westin Hotel, this hotel has just started their operation today.

ok, I admit I miss him. Yes, I do.

Check out the new related post at his blog

细水长流

我一直都很喜欢的一首歌　～　细水长流
词曲：梁文福



年少时候谁没有梦
无意之中你将心愿透露
就在你生日的时候我将小小口琴送
最难忘记你的笑容
友情的细水慢慢流流进了你我的心中
曾在球场边为你欢呼你跌伤我背负
夜里流星飞渡想象着他日的路途
晚风听着我们壮志无数
年少时候谁没有愁
满腔愤慨唯有你能听得懂
每当我失意的时候你将那首歌吹奏
琴声悠悠解我情愁
岁月的细水慢慢流流到了别离的时候
轻拍你的肩听我说朋友不要太惆怅
霓虹纵然再嚣张我们的步履有方向
成败不论切莫将昔日遗忘
多年以后又再相逢
我们都有了疲倦的笑容
问一声我的朋友何时再为我吹奏
是否依旧是否依旧
岁月的细水慢慢流流到了别离的时候
轻拍你的肩听我说朋友不要太惆怅
霓虹纵然再嚣张我们的步履有方向
成败不论切莫将昔日遗忘
多年以后又再相逢
我们都有了疲倦的笑容
问一声我的朋友何时再为我吹奏
是否依旧是否依旧
人生的际遇千百种但有知心长相重
人愿长久水愿长流年少时候

＊特别多谢双喜妈的相助

天意弄人 心情写照

有些事情你不要它发生，但不幸发生了你会很无奈。
有些事情你期待它发生，而真的发生了你会很兴奋。
有些事情你不要它发生，而又没有发生你会很庆幸。
有些事情你期待它发生，却完全没发生你会很失望。

要的时候不来，影子都没有。
不要的时候却围着身边团团转，阴魂不散。

＊改了标题，我不信天意。我相信人为因素影响比较多。

狡猾？聪明？

当爹地不在时...
妈咪：“轩，你比较喜欢爹地还是妈咪？”
轩轩：”我比较喜欢妈咪。”

当妈咪不在时...
爹地：“boy，你比较喜欢爹地还是妈咪？”
轩轩：“我比较喜欢爹地。”

爹地：“哈哈！好奸哩。”
妈咪：“真聪明！”

三岁还不到的孩子就这么狡猾了，好样的！前（钱）途无量！哈哈...

Cat Face 猫脸

Thanks Boy, Mummy really have a good laugh today.

无厘头母子兵

轩现在超爱玩（假假）打针。刚好现在患了小伤风，但又特别讨厌让我清理鼻孔。洗完澡替他清耳孔时...

轩轩：”妈咪帮我打针。“
妈咪：（哇，有机可乘）”好哇，你伤风鼻塞了妈咪给你鼻孔打针。“
（哈！有效，轩静静让我用棉花棒清理鼻孔）
妈咪：”OK，好了。“
轩轩：”妈咪我还要打！“
妈咪：”不要了啦，已经打好了。“
轩轩：”还要！我还要打！我还要打！“
（轩不停闹别扭）
妈咪：”还要打啊？再打妈咪就用藤鞭打的了。要我用藤鞭打吗？“
轩轩：”不要！“
妈咪：”那要用什么打？“
轩轩：”要用挖鼻屎的打。“

槟岛之旅 ～ 相见欢

终于和这位在部落格认识很久了的漂亮妈妈DG见面，肥仔读到这里一定恨得要死因为人家就是不要见他。:P　虽然是第一次见面，但气氛却很好很轻松快乐的交谈。DG就像邻家小女孩，而且是漂亮随和的那种。见到她就是有太多的羡慕，羡慕她的聪明美丽；羡慕她有对漂亮可爱的宝宝（尤其她女儿，真是极点！我的轩很识货还牵了人家的小手呢！有图为证，嘻。）；羡慕她有个高大英俊的老公（虽然我的也不错，只是不够高大但胜在够衬我咯）。羡慕她有妈妈帮忙看小孩（有人可以分担小孩的事）；羡慕她小孩会说方言（说福建话）；羡慕她家住岛上（可以天天看海）等等等...　

DG,　珍惜拥有。


牵牵小手，两小无猜。

中秋节快乐

玩了几天之后，又病了几天。还没完全痊愈，但是明天是中秋所以要在这儿作首诗送给大家。

中秋夜月圆又圆，
三代欢聚庆团圆；
荧光烛火阑珊处，
品茶赏月话当年。

祝大家：
中秋节快乐

骗人

老公骗我！之前已经怀疑而直到刚才终于证实了。他编的谎不是吃不吃饭酱的芝麻小事，是关系到信任。

给老公：
１。你瞒着什么快从实招来！
２。还有，为什么要造谎？

再次提醒你，不要滥用我对你的信任。讨厌鬼！


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出阁 ／ 出游

一位好朋友兼旧同事明天出阁，要去凑热闹顺便当超龄姐妹。最开心的人也许是新娘的妈，嫁女儿有什么值得那么开心呢？呵呵...　以现在嫁娶的风气来说，“娶了媳妇就多了半个女儿，嫁了女儿却多了一个儿子”。但这样的方程式不是人人都可享用，像我妈就嫁了我这个女儿却只多了１／４个儿子，比一半还少。

～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～

后天、大后天和大大后天我们会出游－－到槟城去。

祝我们旅途愉快。

洗衣？煮衣？！

奇怪，怎么这次衣服会洗成这样的？！


原来是那小瓜乘我不留意时对正在工作中的洗衣机动了手脚...

水温被调到最高了，衣服给煮熟了...　唉...

淘气

今天傍晚轩躺在房里的瓷砖地上，我也躺了下来。看见他扒扒后颈便问是不是又给蚊子咬了？轩一个翻身仆在我身上淘着脸说：

轩轩：“不是蚊子是spider来的。妈咪 spider 叫什么名吓？“
妈咪：”... ... “
轩轩：“Rabbit 叫什么？”

我知道他指的是这只-->

妈咪：“他叫 Bunny。”
轩轩：“妈咪，spider　叫什么？”
妈咪：”叫李治轩。“
轩大笑...
轩轩：“不是不是，妈咪不要讲，（掩着我的口）Spider 叫...”
还没等他说完我接：“李治轩！”
轩又大笑...
重复了很多遍和不停的大笑后...

轩轩：“妈咪不要讲啦！”
妈咪：“okok, 你讲妈咪不讲了。”（窃笑）
轩轩：“Spider 叫... 啊比果。”
轩得意忘形大笑，然后一个翻身... 砰！！
后果：


没有见血，只是瓷砖接口处在他的脑壳外留下深深的烙印。

品与学

孩子一天一天的长大，却一天比一天的难以捉摸。几秒钟前还是很可爱的孩子，在几秒钟后却可能变成了魔鬼。天天与他玩着心里游戏，观察他的心情、观摩他的反应。打的、骂的、劝的、求的样样来，还是无法征服他那颗叛逆及充满挑战的心。

现在我觉得自己正在面对人生中最艰难的挑战－－教育孩子。教得好光宗耀祖、造福人间。相反的如果教不好，愧对社会、无地自容。就这一点已教我心力交瘁了。

这里指的教并不是指教育，这么神圣的差事就交给伟大的老师们。我并不是要推卸责任而是无能为力，自己的学业从来就和‘名列前茅’或是'金榜题名'挂不上钩，怎么来教？我唯一可以教育孩子明白什么是‘礼仪廉耻’，这是道德课题应该没问题。现在的孩子真的没有道德观念。

孩子的学业让给老师，品德留给 我 父母。

留言关闭

I am back...

Yes, I am back in blogsphere again. I have so many things in mind but have nothing to write at the moment. BTW, I am here to announce that I will write again but more in Chinese than English in the future. I pretty sure my mandarin is much better than my poor and lousy English, I don't want to abuse my reader with my manglish anymore.

For those who can't read Chinese, sorry huh. I'll still try my best to write in English when times permit. Nowadays I have very limited time to blog so that I must choose the fastest way to write what I want to tell. With writings in Chinese I can express my thoughts and feelings well.

Stay tuned.

'Di Zi Gui' 弟子规

Video of Xuan reciting ‘Di Zi Gui 弟子规’. I am very satisfied with his achievement thus far, in spite of few lines he may miss out sometimes.

弟子规 圣人训 首孝悌 次谨信
泛爱众 而亲仁 有余力 则学文

父母呼 应勿缓 父母命 行勿懒
父母教 须敬听 父母责 须顺承

冬则温 夏则凊 晨则省 昏则定
出必告 反必面 居有常 业无变

事虽小 勿擅为 茍擅为 子道亏
物虽小 勿私藏 茍私藏 亲心伤

亲所好 力为具 亲所恶 谨为去
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Gray & Italic font = missing part

So long, blog sphere...

After more than one and half month stayed in Malaysia, we finally back to Beijing on last Friday. Surprisingly during the wide long break in Malaysia, I totally forgot about internet and blogging! Without internet, I can finish all the house chores relaxingly on time. The most important thing is I have more time and attention to my Xuan.

Life in Malaysia is wonderful and lively. Almost everyday, we have learning and playing session in the morning and swimming session in the evening. Sometimes we go shopping at night with sister who live a block away from my apartment. I started to taught Xuan ‘Di Zhi Gui’弟子规 few weeks ago and the result is very encouraging. ‘Di Zhi Gui’ 弟子规, in English, means standards for being a good student and child. Me not so keen on teaching him ABC or 123 (Xuan can’t recognize every alphabet yet and only can count to 10 correctly), but I truly want him to recite and understand the meaning taught in ‘Di Zhi Gui’. What I think is being a good person is much important than being a clever person. I wish my Xuan become an average-fine-good man rather than an intelligent devil when he grows up. If you are interested to know about 'Di Zhi Gui', check out here for Chinese explanation and here for English.

By the way, we are soon moving back to Malaysia for good. This is the final trip for us to pack our stuffs and leave. I am glad with this sudden changes and I have lots of plan in my head now. The plan and list of things to do after we have moves back to Malaysia:

1. Get mechanic to service the aircon, it has been more than 5 years never service already.
2. Undergo Laser Eye Surgery to correct my short sighted.
3. Rearrange and convert the front room to Xuan’s bedroom. Buy a new bed and install a new aircon unit in the room.
4. Enroll Xuan to Amitabha Buddhist Society Pure Land Learning Center nearby my house. Intend to send him there for a year, and then enroll to normal kindergarten when he is 5 years old.
5. Ok, this is the happy thing; We will try for second baby by next year, after Xuan reaches three.

I am now announcing my semi-retiring from blog sphere, I will still blog but only once in a blue moon. Somehow, you'll see me hop in your site when my mood struck. Thanks for being with me for the past one year of my blogging journey.

Blog Break...

Dear All, I just received instruction from my commander that to announce Blog Break woh... as we are going back KL tomorrow morning flight MH371 :)

Break for how long ah?

eeeerrrrrrr hope able to stay back KL for one month there (again depend on Lee assignment loh...打工仔) BUT also hope to find time to update something here from time to time too...(if someone using 'carefree' WIFI near our apartment kekekeke OR else need to get some bandwidth from my sister who is staying next block kekekeke BUT when go there to chat only lah)


*posted by Leecs...25th April 2006...2 more minutes to go then will be today going home liao...*

轩言轩语 IV

Below conversation been long overdue, but I want to jot it down before I announce my blog break. Yes, we will be back to Malaysia again on Wednesday morning.

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爹地给他下了一跳！(Daddy got frighten by Xuan!)
Xuan: “你看！嘘嘘red color！” (You see! red color urine!)
I wonder is Xuan color blind or what, because he can’t recognize color correctly no matter who many times we teach and show it to him. After some time later, I am very sure he is not color blind. *phew*

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Xuan will inform us if there is any SMS coming. One day when my computer switched to save mode, Xuan accidentally touched the mouse and the screen reappear, he thought that is also a SMS coming and call out loud:
“Mummy, SMS 来了！” (SMS coming!)

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Xuan looks into our eyes, and saw his own reflection in our eyeball and he connected it to the mirror and was so excited. He keeps saying: “有mirror! 有mirror!” (got mirror!)

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Daddy farts loudly when playing with Xuan.
Xuan: “Daddy uhmm-uhmm 出来了！” (Daddy poo-poo came out already!)
He then walks far far away from Daddy.

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Xuan went to lie down on the sofa, and said:
“躺这边，我很舒服。” (lie here, I feel very comfortable.)

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Jump up onto his bed and pretended to swim, at the same time saying: “Swimming, swimming, 游泳, 游泳。”

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Xuan pointed to the blue sky...
“妈咪，今天好天气！” (Mummy, today good weather!)
and sometimes saying:
“今天没有大大风。” (Today no strong wind)

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What goes around, come around. Daddy got this from Xuan:
“爹地手冷冷，走开不要动轩轩。” (Daddy’s hand very cold, go away don’t touch Xuan-Xuan.)

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Shows his love to Daddy and Mummy…
We gave him ice-cream, and he offers us a bite.
“爹地/妈咪吃一下，很好吃。” (Daddy/Mummy eat some, very yummy.)

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He saw Daddy bring out big mug of hot coffee, Xuan was telling Daddy:
“Daddy coffee 烧烧，不要喝先。” (Daddy the coffee is hot, don’t drink first.)

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When we know he is lying,
Mummy: “你骗妈咪，讲骗话会怎样？” (You lie to Mummy, how if you lying?)
Xuan: “鼻子长长开flower。” (Nose become long-long and grows flower.)
(We told him if he lying, his nose will be like Pinnochio’s become long-long and grows flower.)

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Mummy: “噢，air-con 来了。” (oh, air-con come already)
Xuan: “Air-con 有脚，没有脚怎样来。” (Air-con got legs, no legs how to come.)

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Below are some other phrases from Xuan.

“轩轩生气了。妈咪弄轩轩生气了。” (Xuan-Xuan angry already, Mummy makes Xuan-Xuan angry already.)

“我放屁很大声。” (I fart very loud)

“妈咪我喜欢这个Bob-Builder，我要Bob-Builder抱抱。” (Mummy I like this Bod-Builder, I want Bod-Builder hug hug.)

“妈咪，我好像肚子饿。” (Mummy, I am like hungry.)

“爹地来，来陪轩轩看。”(He wants Daddy accompany to watch DVD.)

“妈咪你看，有reflection! ” (Mummy you see, got reflection!)
Pointing at the reflection of the ceiling light on the platinized water tab)

Ghost Story

She doesn’t believe in ghost, but I do. There are spirits aka ghost everywhere, and if you don’t step on their tail, they won’t disturb you. 人不犯鬼，鬼不犯人。Nicole Kidman’s movie ‘The Others’, is the best way to explain how IT live with us in the same world but different dimension.

Today I am going to tell u a real story, a real ghost story. I witnessed what actually had happened to my Sis#4 and her friends.

Many years ago, Sis#4 had to move and stay in Malacca town to pursue her Form Six study. She studied in Gajah Berang High School, which is located next to Sek Kia Eng on the right side. On the other side of Sek Kia Eng, there is an old shop lot, but u can still see the old sign of "Hotel" 客栈 hanging on top of the entrance. Sis#4 and her friends (3 or 4 girl friends) rented a room in that shop lot, because it is nearer to their school. I can’t remember how long they had been staying there, but I do remember they moved out in a lightning speed. Why? Because that shop is haunted!

One day, they woke up and found fresh bloodstain all over their pyjamas, bed sheet, blanket, floor, toilet, and even on their soap! Knock your head and don’t tell me that it was mosquitoes’ blood. If you think so, then that mosquito would have been flying and vomiting blood at the same time, and it must be a giant mosquito as there were bloods everywhere. They felt something wrong but they ignored it, but this happen again on the next day and the following days. I couldn’t really remember whether they call their landlord to clarify about this weird thing or not.

One night, before Sis went to sleep, she set her alarm to 6AM. Her alarm rang, she woke up and checked on the clock and it pointed at 6am sharp. She always bath and wash her hair early in the morning, so was that day. After coming out from the toilet, she woke her roommate up for changing. Her roommate told her that it was only 3am in the morning and asked why did she wake up so early! Sis was shocked and quickly checked her clock again and now, the clock was pointing at 3! Gosh! My Sis went back to sleep, but she could hear people walking up and down on the staircase loudly. The sound was very loud and annoying, so she went to inspect what was going on. Once she opened her room door, the sound stopped. It was so dark outside, with no light and human sign. She was scared and went back to her bed quickly. Then, she heard someone flipping the newspaper, angrily. This time, she dared not to check on it but closed her eyes and forced herself to sleep. The next day, she told her housemate about what happened last night. She was shocked to know that most of them had experienced the same thing, like newspaper flipping angrily, sound from the staircase and so on.

They were all alarmed by then, but still didn’t show sign of moving out yet. Later on, one by one, they fall sick. No medicine could cure the weird sickness. One of sis’s friend’s face started to swollen on one side for unknown reason. The doctor couldn’t find any reason to explain the cause. So, the girl’s parent went to ask help from a God, in one of the famous temples, the God told them, that the fierce female ghost who was rapped and murdered, at a young age in the ancient hotel slapped her. Her spirit couldn’t rest in peace and she was searching for “replacement”. The God advised all of them to move out as soon as possible, and the time must be at 12PM. It is the only time when the sun is right at the top of our head and there will be no shadow of us. I guess ghosts can hide under our shadow and follow us everywhere. My dad and I went to help my sis to move out on that day. I didn’t feel like entering the shop in the beginning, but was afraid to wait outside the shop too. Finally, I went in. The shop was dark and gloomy; I wonder why my sis wanted to rent it in the beginning. I walked pass the staircase and went to the middle part of the shop. There was a skylight and a spiral staircase leading up to a room. Curiosity led me up the spiral staircase and I saw a closed door pasted with old and a bit torn “Fu” 符. Sensing something was wrong; I quickly walked down the staircase and got out the shop.

The story wasn’t finished yet. After they moved out and reached home, they had to cut and burn the cloths and everything that had bloodstain on it. I helped my sis with that. After that, they recovered from their unknown sickness.

The end.

BTW, I also have an invisible genie behind my screen to correct my writing. *grins*

Update on 2253:

Almost forgot to mention about what had happened at my Bro#2’s company last year, very interesting! Please read here and here. And now, how do you explain about that?

“Golden City” ?? 满城尽带黄金甲

Sand storm hit Beijing on Monday morning. Covered News please refer to following links:

English version read here and here
Chinese version read here

Early Monday morning, Xuan was up and requested for milk. When I stepped out from my bedroom, all I could see was yellowish-light from outside the window illuminated my whole interior. Hence, I went on to peep down and I was shocked to see that everything, floors, roofs, and cars were covered with yellowish sand! And the sky was so yellow too!

It was horrible!

"Golden Rain" is pouring... 老天竟下起“黄金雨”来了！

Above left: People busy washing their car.
Above right: The petrol station located opposite my apartment, roof and ground are covered with “golden sand”.

是太阳，还是月亮？
黄尘滚滚，太阳高挂但一筹莫展。
(that is a sun or a moon?)

Above photos are taken from our apartment.

出游

树荫底，桃花下，长城墙边一泡尿。
“前必有古人，后继有来者。” ~ 土阿妈

漫漫长路，伴我行。

听见了吗？风的呼啸...

一颦一笑，年少情愁；春去春回，花香依旧。

回眸一笑，千愁万绪顿成空。

肃静！神兽把关，实不得轻妄矣。

心随境转

相由心生

梨涡浅笑，胜过千古伟迹。

雍和宫留影

客人来 Visitors

有朋自远方来；闹了几天，乐了几天，也累了几天。家，是热闹到了极点，今天终于回归平静。我可爱的宝贝好像突然长大了许多，非常健谈好客。（其实是名副其实的地头虫呢！别人来家做客当然欢迎咯，但如果是他去造访人家就另当别论了。）

尽地主之带朋友去游览了一些名胜古迹，也尝了许多道地的佳肴美食。也终于尝试着独自带宝贝出门；当然是和朋友一起啦，老公要做工赚钱嘛！轩轩很乖，真得很乖！爹地不在身旁他特别乖。很开心我以后何以独自带他出门了，但机会不多因自安不好。

We have friends from Jakarta visited from last Saturday, they left this morning. My house environment suddenly became so lively and happening. Xuan was very kind towards our guest (Always generous in his own territory).

We visited few tourism and historical places together, and tasted a lot of delicious and famous local food. On Tuesday, I brought Xuan visited few places with friends, all alone without daddy present. Xuan always well behave when daddy not around. I can bring him travel alone now, but as for safety wise it wouldn’t allow us to do it often.

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Last night, when our friend was busy packing her stuffs, Xuan was in her room trying to ‘help out’. I heard the noise from the room so I quickly went in to stop Xuan from disturbing, at the same time I was talking to friend.

Mummy: “Xuan go out, 不要 kacau auntie!” (Do not disturb auntie)
*Xuan quickly run out from the room while I still talking to friend. Then I heard him told his daddy－*
Xuan: “Mummy 在里面 kacau auntie.” O_o||| (Mummy are in the room disturbing auntie)

Later, when he was on his potty doing ‘big business’, me again went into friend’s room to chat with her. Xuan calling aloud from our room－

“Mummy 来!”
*Daddy quickly attend to him, but he continue saying－*
“Mummy 快出来，不要去 kacau auntie!” >_<

*揸到!*

春晓

孟浩然的春晓，是众多唐诗中较多人知道的一首。小时候听见兄姐们把它念成了另一首诗，很搞笑的诗。谁改的我并不知道，但这人也太有才华了吧。

原作：
春眠不觉晓，
处处闻啼鸟。
夜来风雨声，
花落知多少。

演变：
夏天不洗澡，
处处蚊子咬。
夜来巴掌声，
不知死多少。

我将这一首诗献给这个男孩。已经不是第一次dedicate post 给他啰，只因他最近在某些事上不是很顺利。干嘛点这首诗给他？因为我这儿现在是春天，他那儿常年都像夏天。再说，他和蚊子很有缘。

来，笑一笑。

Memory 记忆

Just now when I bathe Xuan, after washed hair I found out the body bath already finished. So I took out the new bottle to replace with the empty one, and then continue to bathe him.

Xuan: “妈咪拿过新的。” (Mummy took new one)
Mummy: “是咯，那个用完了。” (Yes, that one finished already)
Xuan: “这个很香！” (This one smells nice!)
Mummy: “是吗？这个很香咩？” (Is it? This smells very nice?)
Xuan: “这个KL也是有！这个一样的，KL有的！” (KL also got this! This one same with KL one! KL got!)
Mummy: O.o “噢，是咧！这个跟 KL的一样的！” (Oh, yes! This is same with KL one!)
Xuan: “White color 的 (bottle), 一样的!” (White color bottle, same one!)

Very surprise that he still can remember the body bath he use in KL. He even acknowledges how nice the body bath smell! How amazing ya!! :)

What I learnt:
Kids noticing every single little thing, and they can remember them well. From the toys they plays, the bed they sleep, the place they went, the food they ate, till the shampoo or body bath they use.
As a parent, don’t try to fool your kids, they will know! 别轻视他们！:p

There goes my heart 掏心

This afternoon, while Xuan was having his milk alone in the room and I was doing washing up in the kitchen, one of the cleaner came to tell me something I inquired. Xuan heard the stranger’s voice and start crying and calling me to go in to the room, because he is scared of stranger. After the cleaner gone, I quickly go in to sooth him and told him that is Ah Yee 阿姨 came to look for mummy. In the meantime, Xuan shown me he has finished his milk. So I offer to accompany him to sleep (usually I won’t stay by his side for the nap time, he will drifted to sleep after finished his milk alone). I lay beside him and closed my eyes.

Xuan start to kiss me on my cheek, then my mouth, and cheek, mouth, cheek, mouth, keep on repeating many times. Later,

Xuan: “最后一次了。” (this is the last time)
Mummy: “Oh, ok.”
Xuan: *Muack* (kiss on my cheek hardly)
Mummy: “ok, good boy. Go to sleep fast.”
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Xuan: “妈咪要抹地了。” (mummy wants to mop floor already)
Mummy: *huh?!* “Oh, 是咯，你自己睡ok?” (Oh, yes, you sleep on you own ok?)
Xuan: *nodded his head*

Then I go out to continue my chores. When I return to the room 15mins later, Xuan was sounds asleep already.

"I Love U"

Barney fever!! If you like Barney, sure you will like this. If you don't, you still will like this. :)

"I love u, u love me~~"

回到校园 — 爹(Tag)你爆秘密(meme)

这家伙吃饱没事做要来玩踢爆秘密嚄, 谁叫她面子…………上所有器官都比我大，给脸她陪她玩！我也会写得很长，希望她别后悔咯！:pdpdpd

在多少间学校读过书?
1. 没上过幼稚园 — 太幼稚了，谁要上？（呵呵… 对，我就是抄袭。吹咩？）
也不知为什么老妈不给我上幼稚园，也许是因为我其它八个兄姐们都没上吧。有时想一想我是老幺咧，怎么都该给我试一试嘛！再说，如果我有上过幼稚园，说不定我现在会有所成就呢！像她老爸说得一样，“如果当年有上幼稚园的话，后来在小学和中学应该可以发挥得更好，因为在幼稚园打好基础非常重要。”

2. 小学 — 培智(国民型)华文小学
离家很近，走的是乡间小路所以不知有多远。学校建在一个相当隐秘的乡村里，所谓的大路也只能供一辆车通行而已。母亲带我走路上学两天后，就跟着姐姐和小哥哥走路去了。走在乡间小路上的确趣事多，但这儿只谈校园趣事，别的不提。

一年级到六年级的成绩就像我的人一样，普普通通。从依据名次排班的甲乙丙丁，到不依名次排班的红黄蓝青，我总是被按在甲班与红班里。朋友很多，知己很少。曾当过巡查员、图书管理员、学会里的舞蹈员和合唱团员。特别喜欢舞蹈，可以废寝忘食的练习。学校里的赛事，年年书法第一、图画第二，其它比赛没有份。代表过学校参加珲春公开赛，得了亚军但没见到奖品，也许寄错学校了。没旷过课、没犯过大规（小的不算）。六年级那年，学校来了一位大家都认为他变态的高老师。这位老师下面再谈。
当时的愿望是当书法家 ，没人反对也没人支持（也许人人都认为我还小不懂事，愿望是什么会搞不清吧）。

3. 中学 — 普罗士邦(国民型)华文中学
念这所学校原因也和小学一样，因为离家很近，而且哥哥姐姐们都在那儿念。同样也是走路上学，但走的不再是乡间小路，而是一条勉强可以让两辆车通行的柏油路。预备班到高中五，共念了六年。

预备班，乙班。不知天高地厚，还曾经旷课到公园玩乐。迷迷糊糊就一年过去了。

初中一到初中三，甲班。参加了很多学会，非常活跃。不爱读书，临时抱佛脚的时候是多得数不清。初级文凭考试(SRP) 成绩平平，有甲、有乙、有丙、没有丁，多亏烧得香多佛祖保佑。忘了在哪一年，学校因课室不够，我班被逼借用邻校的课室上课。借的只是课室，所以科学室、厕所、食堂都得用回本校的。去一趟厕所就花了整十分钟，去多几趟时间就过了！乐也。但很白痴的是，本校和防火演习我们也得参加！心想，本来都已经离‘火场’很远了，干嘛还要跑回去集合呢？！找死不成？

高中一，理二。参加的学会更多了，而且也成为学会的工作人员。学会的开会越来越多，责任越来越重。在华文学会我参与学会年刊“燕讯”制作，写稿、抄写一般的工作。在童子军历成为‘大姐大’，搞集训、搞露营。学校又因为课室不够，我们又成了流动班（幸运？）。就是说哪儿有空课室就到哪儿去，基本上都是在化学室上课。有一次，我因开会误了点上课，进教室时被老师抓个正着。那老师正是校长，而我老爸竟是学校的董事长！结果，校长向我老爸打小报告，那天老爸铁着一张脸对我说了一番‘肺腑之言’，意思就是要我专心读书。我最听老爸的话，所以痛定思痛，决心痛改前非，辞掉了部分学会的工作。

高中二，理二。本可以再次成为巡查员的，但又是因为校长，说什么我参加太多课外活动了，资格被取消。边玩边学习的一年，有欢笑有泪水，朋友之间感情开始巩固了。高级教育文凭(SPM) 的成绩又是平平，有甲、有乙、有丙、也有丁（满汉全席）。

4. 之后 — 马来西亚艺术学院
开始我要选择读戏剧组的，但老爸不赞成，将就下选了与老爸有点关系的室内设计（老爸是巴布建筑师）。三年的课程却因事故我念了三年半。学业一帆风顺，成绩如鱼得水。还是一样朋友很多，知己很少。

我是书虫还是临时抱佛脚？
上面说过了，大多时候都是临时抱佛脚。其实我也很爱读书，要不然不会小学中学都当图书管理员。当管理员可以借很多书，也可以借很多参考书，但我爱读散文多过参考书。

我是老师的眼中刺，还是老师的掌上珠?
我啊？印象中，差不多所有教过我的美术老师，和中学时的华文老师都喜欢我吧。还有一些学会里的老师也蛮疼我咯。还有我在艺术学院时每个班主任都很喜欢我。还有英文老师（天！忘了他名字！）。咦，这么多人喜欢，人见人爱吗？呵呵… 才怪。

我在学校犯过最大的条规?
除了逃过课和考试出过猫（那一次差不多全班一起出猫）以外，没犯过大规。小的不算所以免谈。

最喜欢的三项科目 –
中文 — 我的中文成绩都不错，我的作文就像天马行空(以前可以，现在不行咯），除了写论文。

美术 — 不用背书，轻轻松松写写画画一向是我最喜欢的。呃，我画风景还可以，可别叫我画漫画或动物，会死给你看。

化学 — 喜欢做试验，把化学药物掺来掺去期待着它的变化。

影响我至深的三位老师–
1．我老爸 — 虽然老爸不是教师，但却是我一生中教会我最多事情的‘老师’。怎么与人相处，怎么待人处事，也凭着他不屈不挠的精神克服了所有障碍。老爸学历也不过小学三年级，却自己学会画蓝图、写标书，建立起自己的建筑王国，完成了庞大的建筑工程。

2．高老师 — 评我逐渐衰退的记忆，我是怎么都想不起他的全名来了。高老师是我六年级的级任兼华文老师，整天逼我们抄唐诗、背唐诗，背不到就鞭手板，错一个字就鞭一下（我背书一向很差，跟着家伙有得比，所以已数不清被鞭了多少次）。当时我们全班都认为他变态，受的皮肉之痛和精神虐待真是苦不堪言，最后搞到学生上校长处投诉他变态的教学法。话虽如此，但当时好多首唐诗真的能背得滚瓜烂熟。 唉… 现在都还给了高老师，已经忘得七七八八了。无论如何，还是要多谢高老师当年对唐诗的那份热忱，甘心被学生怨骂也坚持要我们学唐诗。也因那时起，我也开始恋上华文了。真想对高老师说声“对不起”和“谢谢你”，可惜毕业后再没有高老师的消息了。

3．王康寿老师 — 中学时的华文老师，他为教育而努力的毅力感动我。他用那几乎近盲的双眼，努力的、用心的教育着我们。上他的课没有压力。古文、文言文及诗歌，他都能用轻松易解的方式令我们理解。就算他双眼已见不到远处学生的动静，我们也会正襟危坐，也不许任何人干扰王老师的课。我很尊敬他，也很佩服他。

终于完成使命，发现我没谈到什么关于恋爱的事吗？对，我就是避了不谈。说明是回到校园嘛，干嘛谈情说爱呢？:P 好，现在要交棒子了。放心，我不踢人但是我爹(tag)人，爹到你迷迷(meme)糊糊什么都爆出来。我会选那些英文和华文都很好的人来爹，因为想知道为什么他们这么棒。三个天才是：

1．青苹果 (Greenapple) — 土阿妈踢你一脚，我爹你一下。怎样？还是写吧。
2．大地音符(Earthtone)— 你的校园故事一定和你大姐的不同吧。期待！
3．本土女神(Domestic Goddess)— 知道你最近很忙，但忙里偷闲时不妨写一写吧。

Elixir

This woman keeps on blogging about elixir. Hmm… Interesting. Ok let me tell u what is my elixir.

Xuan: “我喜欢妈咪。” (I like Mummy.)
Mummy: “再讲！” (Say again!)
Xuan: “我喜欢妈咪。” (I like Mummy.)

Whenever Xuan says “I like mummy”, I am sure to become happy and energetic again, regardless how tired, or sad, or blue, or dispirited, or unhappy I am. Doesn’t my elixir sound funny to u? But, believe me, this is what keeps me up and running for a whole day, without the help of any supplements.

One day, when Xuan grows older and older, he may tend to be too shy to tell me how he likes me or loves me. By that time, I guess the supplements have to take part to keeps me going. :p

Do u think this topic is quite interesting to blog about? Then, go and write what is your elixir.

Dish of the Lazy Day - Steam Spicy Black Bean Ribs

This dish is extremely easy to prepare for a lazy busy day, what you need are only the LEE KUM KEE spicy black bean sauce + pork ribs + garlic. Simply yummy.

If you are interested, get the recipe from here.

春分

自来京后，深居简出。邻居寥寥无几，朋友更是屈指可数。图相约一聚，也嫌麻烦。时间不便、交通不便、地点不便。哎… 真垴人，不见也罢。窗，成了我和自然界接触的唯一管道。望窗，已成了习惯。

窗外，没有迷人的景色，但夕阳的魅力确实令人陶醉。漫长的冬季，走了。柔和的春风吹起，大地如从睡梦中更醒一般，绿了。

淡淡的绿，象征着生命的延续。盛开的花儿 ，风中飘逸柔情似水。

冬去春来，柳暗花明。

春分，是反映四季变化的节气之一。

Lego

Since hubby bought a set of LEGO for Xuan, he was asking us to build many things for him like bus stop, airport, tunnel etc.

“Mummy build tunnel for Xuan-Xuan.”
Oh, my! Daddy is the tunnel expert not mummy. But, I tried my best to build it for him. I carefully build the columns, the walls and finally trying to cover up the roof. While I was covering the roof, suddenly *plahhhh……*, as expected the tunnel collapsed before it’s completed. Xuan exclaim excitedly “Yoohhh…. mummy’s tunnel collapsed already!” and laugh happily.

“Mummy build petrol station with car washes one for me.”
Hah no problem, I am quite expert in building a petrol station. While I making the petrol station, Xuan was beside me and keep disturbing (he claimed that he was helping me wor). Again *plahhhh….*, Xuan demolished my halfway-to-completion petrol station by throwing the plastic Lego container towards it. I stared at him, he grins and say “Mummy angry…” then kiss on my lips and walk away like nothing happen. *sigh*

“Mummy I want fountain, make fountain for Xuan-Xuan.”
Ok fine, fountain is the simplest one so I fixed it for him. Finally, it's done and I have a moment of peace. But, he gets bore with the fountain very soon. As u can guess, he demolished the fountain and asked for something new.

This time, guess what he wants?

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“Mummy, make for me fireworks!” *fainted*

Below are Xuan’s masterpieces.

According to Xuan, left is car park and right is a house.

Updated:
Found more photos of Xuan’s creation, but I don’t know what it is.

The Sound of 'my Angle'

Xuan sang his favourite "female deer" song while drinking milk this morning.
"Female deer" is the unique name Xuan given to this movie and its song "Do Re Mi".

A Lonely Day...

I feel lonely, very lonely...

Therefore, I try to keep myself busy...

Mummy says the best way to ease my loneliness is for me to makes friends.
Do u want some biscuit?

Wanna take a ride on my Jeep?

Ouch... I am getting tire...

Its time to bed, let gets change.

Good night, sweet dream...